I'm a regular visitor to this board, though I never post. I'm also a CM and the mother of a daughter "on the spectrum." So, this particular topic is very personal to me, but I also have to make sure my comments are viewed as "my thoughts only" and nothing really official.
GAC Abuse is rampant these days. Sue's post with those few examples are just a sprinkling of what we see day in and day out. The CMs I work with all agree that when presented with GACs, they feel they are going to be in for a battle. And, we all say that the people who LEGITIMATELY need them will be the people who WON'T argue with you when you can't deliver immediate access or give them a slip to come back in a bit.
Case and point: I was working an attraction when a woman and her child came up with an AE GAC. The AE was currently unavailable due to another guest having a seizure back there and this attraction does not have FP. I did not tell the woman this as it was not part of her business nor ethical for me to divulge the issue of another guest. I told her she could use stand by (20 min wait) or come back in 15 minutes and I would see if the AE was available. She went off on me telling me how her son was autistic and that I was a heartless and soulless person for not allowing them back there RIGHT NOW. All this as she waved the GAC in my face and told me she'd "have my job." Karma got her--a CM at another attraction closely inspected the GAC when she demanded FOTL instead of FP entrance and realized it was fake.
Conversely, after she was done cussing me out, another GAC holder approached. I told her the same thing. She thanked me and said they would be back.
Let me tell you about some other problems that have arisen that are causing more scrutiny of the GAC:
1. The Tour Guide.
There has been at least one case of a person advertising his/her "services" on Craig's List as a "tour guide" for WDW. This person was promising "15 minute or less wait for any group, five people and under." See, the person was an AP holder and had a GAC. The AP Holder was charging people $200 a day ($40 each) to "tour" them through WDW.
2. The Fake GAC.
Since some people have been scanning/photographing these things, and posting them to websites/trip reports/etc, others have been trying to "make" them with photoshop. One thing they forget is how the GAC "feels." Anyone who has had one knows the material is not cheap computer paper. We catch these by asking to "see" the GAC. When I have a guest that doesn't want to hand it over, I become incredibly skeptical.
3. Throw Grannie from the Ride.
Grannie will have a GAC. She and her whole party will be sent through AE for an attraction Grannie would NEVER want to be on. Grannie will be left at the "chicken" exit while the rest of the party enjoys the attraction. I have personally had to watch an elderly man who was so confused and scared because he was abandoned by his party! This is why you may be asked, "Are you going to ride this?" when presenting the GAC.
4. Swapperoo.
Family will have more than one child. The child who has the GAC is not tall enough/doesn't want to ride a certain attraction. The parent will give the card to the child/children that do want to ride. This is one reason the GAC holder may be asked their name. The GAC is intended ONLY for the person it is issued to, not the party.
There are other issues, too. I know WDW wants to be fair and I know that the GAC can be a live saver. I like the thought posted in the FAQ that it is "insurance." I wish more people would view it that way instead of the "Golden Ticket" some unscrupulous blogs on the internet bill it as. I also think responsibility falls on the parent to use it with proper manners and not "flaunt" it or make an issue of it. Meaning, when the stand by for Soarin' is 120min, and you're sent through FP, don't yell at the CM when FP is a 15-20 minute wait. The ride has a very slow load--that can't be helped.
I used Soarin' as an example because my child LOVES it. She would ride it all day if she could. But, I give her a two-ride in a row maximum. Other things I do with her to help her trips to the park:
1. I use the Disney Touring Plan App. Sometimes this works better than a FP because it lets her "plan." She's 9 now and she loves to look and see what the waits are and devise a little "plan" of her own.
2. I never take her during Turismo season because of the noise and the fact that most of those kids don't understand personal space. Both of these are big triggers for my DD.
3. I take her BEFORE Christmas week, but not during. Again, too much stimulation.
4. I use the GAC when we need it. I've been teaching her to how show it and say "thank you."
And now back to my regularly scheduled lurking...