North of Mouse
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- Mar 31, 2011
I think the OP is gone !!??
. The time to act is now. You've put it off long enough. You DESERVE to be happy. You DESERVE to make your dreams come true. You DESERVE to find true love. Take the advice and run with it. It will be hard, it will be scary, but it will be so worth it in the end.
What a wonderful and kind post!
Probably frustrated because virtually nobody seems to believe she isn't who she claims she isn't.I think the OP is gone !!??
I guess when you get advice (after asking for it), and you don't like what people say, *poof* they're gone..Probably frustrated because virtually nobody seems to believe she isn't who she claims she isn't.
I guess when you get advice (after asking for it), and you don't like what people say, *poof* they're gone..
Another trait strikingly similar to a poster we've seen before. I want to give the benefit of the doubt, because it's a big old world out there and entirely possible two dissers have the same kinds of problems but their stories and reactions are amazingly alike.
Another trait strikingly similar to a poster we've seen before. I want to give the benefit of the doubt, because it's a big old world out there and entirely possible two dissers have the same kinds of problems but their stories and reactions are amazingly alike.
They have the same Christmas tree themes as well... Oh the similarities!
DW and I met in a bar in 1994 - been together ever since
And neither of us was actively "looking" at the time.
They have the same Christmas tree themes as well... Oh the similarities!
No more updates from the OP??
Does that mean she found a date and is enjoying the dating life style?
Welp, I am back.
Around Thanksgiving, my computer died, and I am still working on getting it fixed. I could have had it fixed a long time ago, but I wanted to save what was on my computer, and it has taken this long to get things saved.
Plus, with the holidays, I was and still am swamped.
Some updates for you, and yes I read through each and every response I got. Someone mentioned that maybe I have a fear of dating. It's funny, but I never imagined that before, but....it's very possible. I mean, if you asked any of my close friends or family, they would tell you I WANT to be married, more than anything in the world. That I have looked at engagement rings and been planning my wedding for as long as I can remember. But...dating is a very scary thing, this much is true.
I've actually stepped away from the online dating scene for now. I have devoted myself to my life and my work and getting everything in order. Honestly, organizationally, I am a mess, which is not normal for me. It's time to get life back in order.
I don't know what page, but a while back I posted about a guy that I was getting close to via online dating, and that it didn't work out. Well, update on that. Even though things didn't "work out," we continued to be friends and talked on FB and texted a couple of times a week. Anyway, he was going to call me this past weekend, but ended up he wasn't going to be able to after all. Then, about 11:30 at night, he messages me to ask me if I am up for a FB Video chat. Um, no! I needed to brush my hair, brush my teeth, put on makeup, something other than a ratty shirt...no I can't video chat, are you nuts?!
But, he said he was up for a phone call if I was, even though it was late. So, he called. It was...nice. He teased me incessantly about my accent (which I DO NOT have haha). He said that I was actually different on the phone than online, in a very good way. Unfortunately, the phone call only lasted 20 minutes or so. But, he said he wanted to do it again soon. (He could just be trying to be polite, but still...) So, everything was all fine and dandy, until about 10 minutes after, I got a text from him, thanking me for the phone call and sweet dreams and all that. Well, blush and swoon, and all that good stuff. Now, I am on cloud nine, but trying to keep my feet on the ground.
He may not be interested in me. But, maybe, just maybe, his interest was re-sparked somehow. I am trying not to get my hopes up. After all, he IS the one who said we should take things to the next level, and then, boom, "Sorry met someone else, have a nice life." I don't want to be anyone's second choice, but I don't want to completely write him off either. I mean, maybe this was God's way of showing us how to be just friends for a while.
I can't have too many of those late night phone calls though. The next day, I was daydreaming about it, and turned the wrong way down a one-way street. On roads I have known my entire life like the back of my hand. Or at least since I was old enough to see over the dashboard. Oops.
What the heck is wrong with you ladies? If someone posts on here with an alias, why is it your business to call them out with their real name? Seriously?? How does that help? What does it prove? That you're some nosey know-it-all? That you're smarter than the rest of us because you figured it out?? Yeah, that's something to be proud of all right.
I don't get it. Sorry if I come across harsh, but this happens over and over on the DIS and it's just downright NASTY.
I think that was aaarcher or someone like that who did that, maybe it was on another thread. I thought it was creepy.What the heck is wrong with you ladies? If someone posts on here with an alias, why is it your business to call them out with their real name? Seriously?? How does that help? What does it prove? That you're some nosey know-it-all? That you're smarter than the rest of us because you figured it out?? Yeah, that's something to be proud of all right.
I don't get it. Sorry if I come across harsh, but this happens over and over on the DIS and it's just downright NASTY.
OP, I don't care WHO the heck you are. I just want to point out the truth about low response rate on dating sites. Most people don't have a paid subscription and therefore cannot message nor read receive messages. How do I know? I have made profiles on about 4 sites. I'll occasionally go on and browse (so now my profile looks like I'm active/current), but I cannot read any messages or send any bc I haven't paid. For the heck of it, one time I paid for a month (they were running a special) on eHarmony, and oh my gosh, I had 2-3 YEARS of messages sitting in my inbox!!!!!!! Those men, I'm sure, all thought they weren't good enough since I didn't respond.
Just want to point out that if you're being ignored, it's most likely 80% of your messages aren't getting read.