Finally..I got a phone call. It came form Jennifer Gallager, who coincidentally, is the same person I talked with when we had a problem at POP.
She is going to follow it up with an email, so I can copy and paste, but she says that the children's AP does not indicate a difference, and it is not. YOu may use either AP for your room discount. She did say that they will be following up on the other person's email that was posted, to see if they can track down that name, and so retraining. She said the CM's have so much information to learn, that she understands they sometimes give the wrong info, but the best place to get the correct info is directly from the corporate office, which is where guest services sent my notes (all three of them). She does not know why the other poster got the info she did, but stated it is incorrect, and she will follow up with an email.
She is also looking into the DDE card, ..oh..she just called back again. It's a Disney Dining Experience criteria, that you must be 21 to own the card. So we all knew that, so nothing new there.