Wishing on a star
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 7, 2002
We are kind of in that same boat.
I was lucky to grow up in a large family, and even though things were far from perfect, we had the family Thanksgiving with the Turkey, etc..
For many years, my and DH and DS's Holidays have been dominated by spending time at my inlaws. Just the two of them. Of coarse, that was not always a happy positive thing for me.
Now all of my son's grandparents are deceased, and my family do not all live close, have other plans, etc.
It is hard when one has gone from 'Norman Rockwell', to no extended family at Thanksgiving.
You know, times change, things change, and everyone's situation is different.
I do understand being a little 'sad'. That Norman Rockwell dream is not always possible or realistic.
I think it might be a good thing to think outside of the box, (that totally traditional box) and reach out to what family and friends we do have, and enjoy the Holiday and make new memories!
We are not doing much over Thanksgiving.
In December, we are going on an overnight to enjoy some Christmas cheer and festivities.
Sometimes I think ny husband could be like Tim Allen in Christmas with the Kranks, and plan a cruise!!!!
I was lucky to grow up in a large family, and even though things were far from perfect, we had the family Thanksgiving with the Turkey, etc..
For many years, my and DH and DS's Holidays have been dominated by spending time at my inlaws. Just the two of them. Of coarse, that was not always a happy positive thing for me.
Now all of my son's grandparents are deceased, and my family do not all live close, have other plans, etc.
It is hard when one has gone from 'Norman Rockwell', to no extended family at Thanksgiving.
You know, times change, things change, and everyone's situation is different.
I do understand being a little 'sad'. That Norman Rockwell dream is not always possible or realistic.
I think it might be a good thing to think outside of the box, (that totally traditional box) and reach out to what family and friends we do have, and enjoy the Holiday and make new memories!
We are not doing much over Thanksgiving.
In December, we are going on an overnight to enjoy some Christmas cheer and festivities.
Sometimes I think ny husband could be like Tim Allen in Christmas with the Kranks, and plan a cruise!!!!