This is my point. At my personal property, I think the cut-off should be 13 and then be charged. I have a lot of sports teams that come through for tournaments- the kids use my towels to clean cleats, they stain my floors with kool-aid, or they drop things on the rooms with hardwood flooring, causing us to have to pick up the floor and re-do. That's kids doing adult-sized damage, same as Disneyworld.
As someone who is spending the money, it is easy to see it this way. But, as someone who stated they stayed in deluxes and by the below mentioned reference to the DP, it really isn't a fair comparison. You aren't staying in a value and eating OOP. You are choosing a certain benefit for a price.
Yes, you can compare the 2. A room is a room is a room. A pool is a pool is a pool. They might look different but they serve the same functions. What you can compare is the cost of the amenities and what you are getting over the other. I personally think that WL and AK are HIGHLY over-rated, and I have stayed at both with a 1/2 off RACK rate. I'd rather pay the extra to have an EP deluxe, simply because that is the park at which I spend most of my family time.
Disney has shareholders to answer to, that's why. If they don't make money, they lose shareholders and stock purchases which is ultimately what funds the world. They also have a higher overhead- if you slip in the shower, you sue Disney as a whole, not the individual property. If you stay onsite and use the bus- whether it is a long wait or worth it or not- it is not a free service; it costs money to fill up the buses and to run the air and the heat. Nothing is free- free dining isn't free. Free Magic Express isn't free. It is convenience.
You are paying the 30% less because the off-sites don't provide the services that Disney does- you provide them for yourself. Plus, they can get the work done cheaper as little things go wrong off-site. They also don't have the advertising costs that Disney does.
Bottom line is- griping about it doesn't help. When people quit staying onsite because of the expense, then it will change. Take the FP for instance- enough CM saw the difference and the issues. So long as the turnstiles keep turning, DIsney won't change it. I see Disney as reasonable for most things- I don't go if I can't get a discount on a room. I don't pay much, if any, to fly there. If I did, I would drive. I don't eat enough to pay for the DP but I drink and the bus service is the best. I don't want to be a danger to anyone!!
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Griping does help. IT does help other DISers about our experience with resorts, dining etc. IT's funny everything you claim above were the same "costs" and "services" as two years ago. But now everything has skyrocketed out of control in my opinion. Just read these forums and everyday there is something broke, in repair, or needs to be repaired, food quality etc. Disney has tainted the "Disney Difference". The bus service takes 30-45 minutes to get anywhere, it's crowded and slow. The Magical Express is a ploy "by design" to keep Disney customers at Disney. No car, no way out of the world. Disney didn't create the Magical Express to be nice, it's all in the marketing and it works.
Further, I don't mind paying a little extra for things but what is getting me more and more frustrated is that things are way exceeding cost of living increase and the services are going WAY DOWN. So in essense I'm paying more for a WHOLE LOT LESS. This goes for Dining, Resorts, oh yes the parks. There are numerous rides that have literally gone down hill and in ill repair. For instance Soarin film needs to be revised and improved, The Yeti, Splash Mountain details with the fountains, and rides that are just down for repair etc.. Oh and the monorail maintenance, half the time there are problems with that too. Some resorts are in desperate need of repair also. It's really getting to be ridiculous. Seriously.