ANOTHER Adventure in Autism (4/15) A Taste of What's to Come...

And the worst part was that the entire night I had been bored stiff.
Don't you just hate that?

I'm not much of a gambler either. When we go to the casino, I only take $40.00 and play the slot machines. Once I run out, it's time to leave. DH is another story :eek:

kathy said:
Glad you're here! If Buzz and Goof are going to hang around, I'm going to need all the help I can get!

Ain't that the truth!!! :rotfl:
 
Yay! Kathy! I'm definitely in for this TR!!! That's great that Billy has made that progress!! I'm so excited for all of you! I was just thinking the other day how even though it's very difficult at times, we were given such a gift by getting Trey. He struggles so hard-the victories are so sweet and so appreciated!! Things other kids do automatically-it's like a miracle when Trey does some of them.

Speaking of crying, I hardly ever cry, but after last summer and losing my grandma and dad, I now seem to just burst into tears a lot. :sad2: Last December, we were in the car and I put a Nick JR DVD on for the kids. We have 3 screens so we can all watch, and it was a Little Bill episode. My kids love LB so they were all happy to watch it. Well, the episode took a bad turn when Alice The Great (is she his grandma? I could never figure that out) got stuck in an airport and couldn't come home for Christmas.

Well of course, I was thinking of how my dad and grandma wouldn't be with us at Christmas. Then Little Bill starts crying and it was the saddest thing I think I've ever heard. My kids get really upset when I cry, especially Trey, so I try really hard not to, but I felt the tears snaking down my cheeks. I look in the rear view mirror and both kids are crying. I was pulling into the driveway right then so we all three just sat in the car crying our eyes out. We all decided we'd better not watch that episode again! :guilty: All that emotion over a cartoon...

Can't wait for more installments! :yay:
 
blue: Glad you're here! If Buzz and Goof are going to hang around, I'm going to need all the help I can get! ::yes::

Ain't that the truth!!! :rotfl:


I take great offense to these statements…………….How much cheese could an Amish family sell. Would it sell better if they used the Chopping Wizard to make little cubes? I wonder if they had crackers in their overalls. If they didn’t sell all of…..

OH, Sorry, my mind wandered…what were we talking about?
 
I take great offense to these statements…………….How much cheese could an Amish family sell. Would it sell better if they used the Chopping Wizard to make little cubes? I wonder if they had crackers in their overalls. If they didn’t sell all of…..

OH, Sorry, my mind wandered…what were we talking about?

It probably would be better with a Chop Wizard-those things should be nominated for the 8th Wonder of the World.

I told Buzz we could /should put his extra long toe on it and let me give it a whack. I could take that thing down to a normal length in one shot. Might be a little painful, but beauty is pain, after all. Look what women do to their eyebrows-now that is pain.

And, now back to our regularly scheduled program....
 
I've said it before...I'll say it again...you are such a good writer! :thumbsup2 I looved your latest installment...its only flaw was that it was too short!

Now I'm all anxious for you...I really hope you get your waitlisted nights!!:goodvibes
 
AGPrincess: Too short! I've got to stretch this out til November!

Linnie: Just Keep Swimming... And keep tissues on you at all times.

AvivasMom: Hey, I've got to keep you all checking in somehow!

blue: (Actually, I did take a gamble telling Buzz I was starting this, didn't I?)

and Goofster: Oh please don't encourage him with cheese references...I'm still getting over that toe picture! :scared:

Post to follow,

Kathy
 
Pre-Trip #4:

"Like Walking Through a Pool Full of Jell-O"

Well, if you think that you can’t wait to see how everything with the VWL turns out, just imagine how I was feeling! Day after day I made calls to DVC Member Services to check the status of our waitlisted nights. (The member website was acting very persnickety at the time, so I felt more comfortable speaking with real, live people!) I think I must have spoken with every reservationist at MS at least once, some of them even more.

“Oh, hello Mrs._____, I spoke with you yesterday…..no, I’m sorry. Nothing is available for your dates, but, have a magical day!”

Grrrrr!

The first four weeks were the worst…..I had nothing else “Disney” to do! Park Hours weren’t out yet; Tour Guide Mike hadn’t posted his predictions for Least Crowded Parks, and I hadn’t yet reached the magical 180-day mark for making dining ADRs. It was maddening!

Time moved so slowly, that it felt like I was walking through a pool full of Jell-O.

My DIS-ing increased dramatically as I spent more and more time searching the boards for information, tips, and camaraderie. I was itching like mad to start working on our Operational Plan! At home, I found myself inadvertently slipping WDW into every conversation:

Ed: Kathy, do you want to get pizza tonight?
Me: Sure. Oh, and speaking of Italian food, I heard they’re closing Alfredo's in August.

Me: Tricia, I made an appointment for you to get your hair cut.
Tricia: Okay, Mom.
Me: Did you know that they’re putting in a second Bibbity Bobbity Boutique in Cinderella’s Castle?

Ed: So-and-so is putting an addition on his house.
Me: That’s nice. Oh, I read that they’ve started to convert some of the Animal Kingdom Lodge rooms to DVC villas already.

(There is an intrinsic understanding among all family members that when Mommy says “they” that she’s talking about WDW)

“ ……and that we think Mom should enter a twelve step program.”

Hey!!

I’ll have you know that my loving husband surreptitiously added that last line while I was out of the room. Hardee-har-har, Ed! Isn’t it bad enough that you’ve got the TV blasting the latest episode of CSI in my ears while I’m trying to organize my thoughts into some semblance of a report?? Now you are committing acts of TR sabotage! :stir:

Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, walking through Jell-O. Waiting for the necessary variables to fall into place so I can draw up my master plan. And, as you all know, waiting for four nights at the VWL.

Sometime after the twentieth or thirtieth call to Member Services, I got a hit! One of our waitlisted nights had come through! Which one? I wondered.

Tuesday, 11/6.

Blechh! Not exactly what I had hoped for, but I’ll take it! You see, I figured that if I could at least get us four nights straight at VWL, and none of the other waitlisted nights came through, we would just split our stay between VWL and SSR. It would be easy to get a few nights back at good ole SSR, especially if they included two point-heavy weekend nights.

Oh boy, I hope I’m not confusing anyone. :confused3 DVC operations can be a bit befuddling. (I’m still figuring it out myself after 2-1/2 years.) Anyway, the important thing to know is that, for all intents and purposes, I was still waiting to find out exactly where we would be staying. Right now our ressie looked like this:

Sat /Sun: VWL
Mon: SSR
Tues: VWL
Wed /Thurs: SSR
Fri /Sat: VWL

Yikes! No way I’m going to let it stay like that! I resign myself to trusting in the pixidust pixiedust: and giving the waitlist fairy a few more months.

In the meantime…..Huzzah!! :banana: :banana: :banana:

The merry, merry month of May had arrived! Park hours for November were released! My 180-day window opened! Forget about resort headaches :headache: for the moment; it was time to roll up my sleeves and get to work on our itinerary and our ADRs!

But, wait! I still needed one thing more before I could begin. Doh! :crazy: More Jell-O!

(Lime Green, of course!)


Kathy
 
:cool1: YAY!!! Another installment! Pays to stay up late, all the good TR writers are up like me :rotfl:. Thanks for letting us in on your DVC adventure. I can't wait for more popcorn::.
 
I'm loving this! And I love how we're going through the resort drama with you... the tension is palpable! :scared:
 
"Like Walking Through a Pool Full of Jell-O"

Been there done that….nough said


I think I must have spoken with every reservationist at MS at least once, some of them even more.

Do they use fairly normal names? When we made our reservations with Cast Services they all had Disney names, I remember talking to Belle, Jasmine and Frollo. Makes it hard to complain to a manager,

Yes Sir Bambi was very rude to me!


……and that we think Mom should enter a twelve step program.”

Hey!!

I’ll have you know that my loving husband surreptitiously added that last line while I was out of the room.

Score one for the good guys

Sat /Sun: VWL
Mon: SSR
Tues: VWL
Wed /Thurs: SSR
Fri /Sat: VWL


Looks like a challenge so far, can’t wait to hear how it comes out.
 
It probably would be better with a Chop Wizard-those things should be nominated for the 8th Wonder of the World.

I told Buzz we could /should put his extra long toe on it and let me give it a whack. I could take that thing down to a normal length in one shot. Might be a little painful, but beauty is pain, after all. Look what women do to their eyebrows-now that is pain.

:rotfl:


and Goofster: Oh please don't encourage him with cheese references...I'm still getting over that toe picture! :scared:

Coming to a Toy Store near you, its Mr. Smiley the Elongated Toe, He’s great fun at Parties!
 
“ ……and that we think Mom should enter a twelve step program.”

Hey!!

I’ll have you know that my loving husband surreptitiously added that last line while I was out of the room.

:rotfl2:
At least he's taking an interest in your TR Kathy! :rolleyes1


Kathy said:
Oh boy, I hope I’m not confusing anyone. :confused3 DVC operations can be a bit befuddling.

I'm very confused at this point :sad2:
Don't understand the DVC stuff :headache:
 
I suppose that I would rather spend my money on something nice….a show…a really good dinner….an afternoon in a spa….than risk throwing it away with a roll of the dice. But, that’s just me.

Nope, not just you. It's me, too!


At home, I found myself inadvertently slipping WDW into every conversation

Same here! I mentioned on another thread that DH has threatened to get me a lime-green tshirt that said "hopeless" and make me wear it all around DW!


“ ……and that we think Mom should enter a twelve step program.”

See above comment!


Sat /Sun: VWL
Mon: SSR
Tues: VWL
Wed /Thurs: SSR
Fri /Sat: VWL

Please tell me you know the end of the story, and that we don't have to wait with you!!!


The merry, merry month of May had arrived! Park hours for November were released! My 180-day window opened! Forget about resort headaches :headache: for the moment; it was time to roll up my sleeves and get to work on our itinerary and our ADRs!

Yay! Can't wait to hear about your plans!

Denise
 
Pre-Trip #5:

"Oh, Mike Goodness!"



It was with no small amount of glee that I r-r-r-ripped the April page from the calendar to expose the page beneath…...Ahh, May! :cloud9: Marvelous May! Magnificent May! Month that holds the most monumental day on the trip-planning timeline: 180 days from check-in!! Since we were checking into a WDW resort on November 3rd, this meant that our magical ADR date was May 8th. Whoo-hooty-hoo!! :banana: Let the “active planning phase” begin!

Step One: Figure out where we all want to eat!

As a family, we had already discussed which untried restaurants we would like to visit this year. We also debated which of our old favorites we would like to frequent again. Uh, we actually had many such discussions. :blush: Every Sunday we pick Aunt Rae up from the senior apartment complex here in town and we go to Mass together. Usually we all go out to lunch afterwards. Well, for some reason, the topic of WDW dining always comes up! :rolleyes1

Now, let me tell you, Aunt Rae (age77) is probably my greatest ally when it comes to talking Disney. While Ed and Tricia will roll their eyes and make good-natured jokes about my “addiction”, Aunt Rae doesn’t even bat an eyelash when I want to talk about November vacation plans in March or April! Her first trip to WDW with us last year more than exceeded her expectations and, although she had always loved Disney, the experience made her a true WDW fan for life. Especially where Disney Dining was concerned.

You see, a few months before our vacation last November, Aunt Rae was diagnosed with gluten intolerance and placed on a gluten-free diet. Gluten is found mostly in wheat-based products: breads, pastas, baked goods (oh, just shoot me if I ever develop this!), so if she wants to eat any of these foods they need to be made with gluten-free rice or corn flower. She had adjusted to making her own meals at home, but she was very concerned that she would not be able to eat at any of the restaurants and stay on her special diet. I kept telling her that the WDW chefs would accommodate her needs. I even printed out menus and articles about special needs diets at WDW for her to read, but she continued to fret about it. :worried:

Despite all of my reassurances, Aunt Rae was convinced that she needed to pack gluten-free bread, cookies, and crackers in her suitcase and that she would lose weight while at WDW. She’s about 90lb soaking wet and her doctor would like her to gain some weight. (*When oh when will medical researchers develop the person-to-person Fat Transplant? I would gladly give her some of mine!)

On the first day, AR carried a lunch tote with “her” food inside, sure that she would not find “anything she could eat” at the Magic Kingdom. The next morning, the lunch tote stayed in her room.

I think AR’s favorite thing is when the chef comes to the table and personally reviews the menu with her. We met so many great chef CMs that way! And some of them are pretty cute! ;) If there was nothing on the menu that was suitable or that appealed to Aunt Rae, the chef would make something special just for her. She just couldn’t get over it! Oh, and she gained 5lbs! And was happy about it! :upsidedow






Here is Aunt Rae with Nelson, the chef at 50's Prime Time Cafe:

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Here are some more pics from last year to help you get better acquainted with the family.....


Ed and I enjoying an adult beverage at the PTC:

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A rather blurry family pic at Pizzafari in the Animal Kingdom.

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Me with Pooh-Bear at the Crystal Palace.

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popcorn:: popcorn:: popcorn:: popcorn::








Ed goofing around at the CP:

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Tricia and Billy arriving at Epcot.

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Sigh*, I guess this would be a good time for me to talk about the kinds of pictures I will be posting on my report.

I love pictures and think that they really add to a report, but I have a sort of paranoia about posting pics of my children’s faces on the internet. Even on a family-friendly site like the DIS, because they could still be copied and pasted. I wasn’t thinking about this last year and wound up not having many to post because 99% of my pics were of my kids. Kids with the characters. Kids in front of the Castle. Kids riding Dumbo, etc. This year, I will take pics with a TR in mind, so I will have lots more to share. ::yes::


So, back to the original question: Where do we want to eat??

Well, 50's PTC was a big hit with everyone, so we’ll do that again for sure. Ed made the suggestion of the Hollywood Brown Derby, but he withdrew it when I told him it required two table service credits, not just one. Nah, not the best bang for the buck there!

I love character meals because it is just such a nice way to meet the characters; no time “wasted” waiting in a queue…you just eat your meal and they come to you! Definitely going to need to coordinate one or two of those with my sister and her family! Hmmm, perhaps the Princess Breakfast at Akershus (Norway)?? No, wait, Marilyn will probably want to try for Cindy's Royal Table since it’s the girls’ first visit. Maybe the Crystal Palace? Pooh-Bear! pooh:

Ed wants to eat at Restaurant Marrakesh (Morocco). Is that for the food or the entertainment, I wonder? :rolleyes: Nevermind, why did I even ask?

We’ll have to include Whispering Canyon Cafe at Wilderness Lodge! (I’ll ask for a table off to the side, though.) Everyone would get a kick out of the zany antics of the servers, but too much noise and commotion might be a bit over-stimulating for Billy. We do better when seated by a wall or a window, so I always request that when checking in at the podium. It sometimes means a little extra wait, but its worth it in the end for a more relaxed dining experience. :thumbsup2

I was not having a relaxed time planning our dining experiences, however! I wanted to make my parks itinerary first, and then fit my ADRs into my plan. No sense planning lunch at the Crystal Palace if we are going to be in Animal Kingdom that morning. The problem was, I couldn’t decide which parks to do which days yet!

I’ve learned a few things about itinerary planning from the past four family trips to WDW. Because we’ve got Billy and all his autistic behaviors/issues to deal with, we can’t do commando-style touring, even though it’s my first knee-jerk reaction to try and cram as much as possible into every waking moment! Add to that, the fact that we have a 77yr old woman with us who, despite being in good health, does not have the stamina she had when she first took little Ed to Disneyland back in 1968!

My #1 rule is to try to visit the parks on the least crowded days /times of the week. (I have other rules, but since I have 3 months, 3 weeks, and 5 days to tell you about them, I think I will spread them out!) How will I predict which will be the least crowded parks on each day? Crystal Ball? Psychic Detectives? Secret Spell to be revealed soon in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows? No. I will let Mike make the necessary prognostications. Have you met my friend, Mike, yet? Where are my manners!

Friends, this is my friend, Mike. Tour Guide Mike.
Mike, these are my DIS-Friends.

Mike and I became very close last year when I was in the active planning phase of my trip. Ed was working steady night shift back then and that’s when I got into the habit of late night DIS-ing after putting the kids to bed. I read about TGM on the attractions board and took a look-see. It was one of the best things I have ever done when it comes to itinerary planning.

Night after night, Ed would IM me from work and interrupt my trysts with Mike. Eleven o’clock. Twelve o’clock. One o’clock in the morning.

“Are you still talking to your boyfriend?” he would type.
“Not talking, just reading,” I would reply.
“So he sends you love letters, huh? I’m gonna have to have it out with this guy soon!”
“Oh, Ed! ......Sign off, I can’t see the screen.”

I think Ed was actually a bit jealous. :confused3

Out of all the pages and pages of advice that Mike has on his website, the most valuable to me has always been the LCCs (Least Crowded Charts.) I followed them last year and they really helped us avoid the bigger crowds during our first Jersey Week I really, really wanted to use them again.

But, there was just one problem this year. Well, actually there were a couple of problems that joined together like two amorous amoebas to form one larger problem. First, WDW stopped using a set schedule of EMHs (Extra Magic Hours) and began releasing the EMH schedule on a month-by-month basis with the park hours. That made it darn near impossible for Mike to analyze the data and get the LCCs out prior to the beginning of the month in question.

Second, for whatever reason that month, Disney was late posting the official park hours and EMHs schedule. And so,

May 1st….no November park hours. May 2nd….no park hours. (Hmmm. What’s up with that?) They’re usually out by the first of the month. May 3rd….still no park hours for November. Uh oh. Wait…..wait a minute.… Huzzah! Late that afternoon, the November park hours are finally announced! :woohoo: Whew! Okay, Mike, you’ve got what you need, now get to work!

(Cue the musical theme from Jeopardy!)

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Four days later....


Um, uh… hello, Mike? This is Kathy, remember me? We met last year. Yeah…yeah….I had a good time, too. Well, the thing is.…I mean, what I really wanted to say was…..


I really, really need those LCCs!! What the heck is taking you so long?? My 180-day window opens tomorrow, and I need to figure out my itinerary!!

(Um, call me, okay?)


Kathy
 
I don't post face photos of kids either & behind photos of kids holding hands are my faves! I actually fram & hang them more readily than I do face on. I just think the personality of tykes comes out so beautifully. Like the one of your DD & DS. He just is bumping along, there for the fun, looking around & she is leading him to the magic while taking a bit of time to look around herself. I love it.
 
Um, uh… hello, Mike? This is Kathy, remember me? We met last year. Yeah…yeah….I had a good time, too. Well, the thing is.…I mean, what I really wanted to say was…..


I really, really need those LCCs!! What the heck is taking you so long?? My 180-day window opens tomorrow, and I need to figure out my itinerary!!

(Um, call me, okay?)


Kathy

Oh my gosh! Mike and I just met several months ago and that was my experience too! :sad1: I... I... think he's seeing other people! :guilty: He did come through for me though in the end :hug:

Really enjoying your pre-report :flower3:
 
You have me LOL!! My DH thinks I am crazy. I can relate to you with ED working the night shift..Spider (DH) does 5 overnights a week.

We love CP and WCC. We have done all 3 meals at CP...all of them were great!
 
Now, let me tell you, Aunt Rae (age77) is probably my greatest ally when it comes to talking Disney.


I need an Aunt Rae desparately. I have no one in real life to talk to Disney about :sad1:. I incorporate WDW into conversations with my b/f but I think it is falling on deaf ears lately. Doesn't he understand we need to discuss the dining plans 4,222 times? Shouldn't I be second guessing my choice of resort right now? He is no help whatsoever. Thank goodness for DisBoards.

Hope you get the ADR's you wanted.
 

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