I had an opportunity to stay at SSR for the first time this year and it does have its advantages and disadvantages.
I didn't like the fact, that unlike many of the other resorts, you had to walk all the way up to food court building - past the bus stop - to get breakfast and then walk all the way back to the bus stop. We solved that by buying a bag of bagels, some milk and juice, and cream cheese at the Artist's Palatte. We felt the CS at Artist's Palette was dismal and we saved our CS for lunch in the parks, since many of our TS were late in the day. A few mornings, when we had earlier TS, we opted for DTD at Wolfgang Puck's Express or Earl of Sandwich.
DTD was so nice and close - we were there till midnight every night.
I did love the view from the room - third floor balcony, and the beautiful lake; so peaceful. Loved the pool, and the arcade was right near by.
And the bus service was very good; I don't think we waited more than ten minutes for a bus once.
I think it is good to experience a DVC when you can - I think your son would enjoy either place, but I would definately let him decide - he is old enough to understand.