We have 19 Days left
! It is hard to believe that the trip is approaching so rapidly, although it must seem to the kids like time is going VERY slowly
. We have done most of the planning that will need to be done. We will have to start getting everything together Labor Day Weekend. That sounds kind of early, but I work 10 1/2 hours shifts plus an hours RT commute
and will be gone to my niece's wedding the next weekend. We will have the Friday and Saturday before we leave home to pack. The day before we leave, we will drive to my inlaws to spend the night. They will drive us to the airport EARLY the day of our departure.
The next event we have is a "Send Off Party" with Make a Wish
. My DD chose Chuck e Cheese for that dinner.
http://www.chuckecheese.com/ It is in Spokane, about an hour away. Chuck e Cheese has really poor quality pizza, but lots of arcade games and such for kids. The host is an animatronic (poor quality) mouse. Several other such figures perform on a little stage. It is definitely a kid-friendly place.
At the party we will get our airline tickets and funds for the trip. The date has not been set yet.
Last night, my DD and I watched the travel channel show on Sea World
before bed. She got into it a lot more this time that she has so far. She asked me to look up on the internet to see if she was tall enough for Journey to Atlantis. She is by an inch
. She was also very interested in the Arctic ride.
Yesterday her grinchy friend told her that all the characters she will meet at Disney World are not real
, but are just people dressed up. She is pretty cynical for a 7-year old, but I think there are some sour grapes going on as well
. It is hard to know how to approach this. We want the magic to work for her, especially related to Cinderella. My DD is pretty sure that Minnie, Mickey et al, must be people in costumes, but the actors like the Princesses and Peter Pan seem real to her.
We will keep you posted.
I was a bit stunned to hear that people take naps in restrooms. GROSS
! I have to admit that when camping in a unexpected downpour or snow storm the thought has occurred to me, but I have never done it. At Yellowstone in the winter I was at Old Faithful. It was -25
. I misread the time of eruption and went into the restroom to thaw out. I ended up just missing Old Faithful
.
The reason my DW will not be available at times to take our DD to the restroom is that she has agreed to go on some of the big rides with my stepson who is 13
. This will separate us fairly often as I will take DD to attractions that she would like and he would not (maybe even Small World and to meet Barney!
). I would not send my DD into a restroom alone, although it may be a lot safer than sending a little boy into a men's room. Having only one kidney, she has to go fairly frequently and suddenly
.
As far as overplanning versus taking it easy and enjoying the trip, I am kind of unusual. I will plan and plan and plan
ahead of time, but be very laid back when the activity is finally happening
. For instance, on a road trip from Spokane to
Disneyland, I planned out every rest stop along the way and where every Taco Bell was located (cheap food) on the route. But when the trip happened, I was the first to suggest being spontaneous and taking a detour to do something unplanned.
When I was an E.M.T. in California, I had this dichotomy going. I would really work hard to plan for emergencies, but when we were on scene, I would be the calmest man on the team, as cool as a cucumber. When the event was over, and I was home, I would feel shaken then
, but not during the mission.
I see my Disney planning as insurance. If I have a plan and know the options and outcomes, I can relax and go with the flow and offer lots of choices for the group. I don't even care if I am the one to choose which ride next. I just need to be prepared to offer my family the best choices possible. I am thinking, that we should have a different person choose each ride within a "land." It would be one person's turn to choose, then anothers, etc. so everyone feels empowered and valued.
Bill