Another single mom here and even when I wasn't....our trips have only been myself and my girl/s. We've always had a blast.
My family does not get my enthusiasm for all things Disney either. I've found friends in my area and also online to be able to obsess with.
It's Sooooo much fun!!
Ever since my little was born we have tried to find outfit themes since matching became hard with girls nearly 16 years apart. Since my big (18 this trip...celebrating graduation) refuses to let me dress her anymore (I have no idea why?!....lol) I mainly focus on the super cute outfits for the little (almost 3 this trip). I have ordered so much stuff it's not funny. We are doing a couple of theme days though. Our SWW day we all have Storm Trooper themed shirts and for one of our MK days we all have pink Cheshire cat shirts.
I hope ya'll have a truly magical trip!! Too bad our vacation days do not overlap...it would have been fun to have our little ones meet one another.