Make-a-wish told us they could only get Danny (the wish child) a slot. They wouldn't even try to get the brothers a slot. They said it wasn't their policy. So we may end up doing the split-up upon arrival thing. The problem with that is that we may end up with different times as well then. I think I'll try calling Disney directly and see what they suggest.
At this point, we don't even have our set dates yet from MAW, so I'm just planning out. I'm a compulsive planner, but with all we've had to deal with, it's been a good thing. (Like the time we actually had to use the spare g-button I brought "just in case" because he got his g-tube ripped out while wrestling with younger brothers in a hotel room. So we inserted the new g-button right there in the hotel. Or the earlier time when the local hospital didn't even have one at all, much less in his size! The hospital staff got to watch while my husband insert their full tube himself to serve as a temporary g-tube since the ER docs were unfamiliar with it. That was before we got spare buttons every 3 months from the supplier... back when the GI himself had to do the inserting usually.)