Oh my, what a kerfuffle over ladies getting together to drink champagne!
Who knew that offering to keep a simple list of ladies wanting to dress up and socialize over a drink would cause so many hurt feelings, angry posts and accusations of unreasonableness, arbitrariness and exclusivity?!
As I said in January, Ive participated in several kinds of Champagne Girls; in a passengers suite where everybody brings their own bottle, at a
DCL official champagne tasting for a fee, and in the Promenade Lounge where everyone can just order a drink. All have been fun; none have an unlimited capacity. I thought it would be fun to have a get together on the WBPC. Since no one else had come forward since the beginning of the thread, I volunteered to keep a list of those interested.
Since I dont have a lot of time for the following the DISBoards and/or chatting on Facebook or working with DCL to plan a private tasting, I chose the simplest form of CGsgetting together in the Promenade Lounge. This was also based on feedback from past cruises where some women didnt sign up for an official CG event because they didnt want to pay the fee involved or feel pressured to drink alcohol. No one ever questioned this simple approach or the method of signing-up.
I kept the list of those who posted in the thread or PMed me, as I requested. Having experienced a CG meet like this before which can overwhelm the PL space and bar, I made the judgment call to limit the size before the number got unwieldy. The difference from the first day meet is that no activities are ever scheduled in the PL on embarkation afternoon, it is usually over quickly as everyone goes off to get settled and relatively few people order from the PL bar at that time. All seems very reasonable to me. Of course, I had no idea that so many potential CGs were out there who had not gotten in touch with me. In fact, I still have no idea how many there are.
Soooo, at this point, before the mob appears at my door with torches
As has been mentioned, we all agree that the Promenade Lounge IS a public space.
Lets just open the WBPC Champagne Girls meet to everyone who wants to come, with no sign-ups, limit or capacity.
In the interest of my time and feelings, Im more than happy to relinquish any coordinating role (keeping a list, bringing name tags, planning an ice breaker, etc.). I hope this answers questions about how we got to this point; if anyone still needs to express her unhappiness with me, please PM me so the thread can move on to other topics. And if you prefer an alternative CG meet, Im sure youll have a great time; thats what CGs is all about.
See you soon