I have women's flips.
Amazon has them.
http://www.amazon.com/Montrail-Womens-Molokini-Sandal-Black/dp/B000GF8RW2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1363298639&sr=8-1&keywords=montrail+molokini
The 5 fingers seem to be a love/hate thing with people. They feel different, yes but in the most wonderful way. If it was socially acceptable (and not gross) to walk around barefoot, I would. I have lousy knees and ankles from years of gymnastics and I feel very sure footed when I wear them.
It is very important to get the right size. They explain how to measure your feet on the Vibram website and you may wear a different size in different styles. The material around the toes is like a substantial pantyhose material
. I don't notice it at all, but some people can't stand it.
They tell you to wear them for short outings and work up to all day wear. My legs were sore the first few times, just from using different muscles to walk. Now I love them.