Hey Neighbor!
Rumson is a Beautiful town, We actually live in Lincroft. Do you live in Middletown? Or just play there?
We went during Jersey Week, after hurricane Sandy, while our power was out. Really if you have to choose between Disney and a power outage with a nor'easter on its way...kind of a no brainer!
We left on a Friday and we wanted to leave at 3am, to avoid DC at rush hour, but we just didn't make it out by 3. We hit DC around 7:30-8 and I was worried about rush hour. We were on the outer loop, didn't drive through the city, and we didn't hit any traffic until right after DC as we entered VA. The traffic wasn't bad, it just slowed down for about a half an hour, then picked up to normal speeds again.
We made really great time on this trip, compared to some of our other times. I was happy to be so far along the route at dinner time when we stopped. We like to get the bulk of the driving done on day 1, so that day 2 is a short drive. On a previous trip we stopped at Florence SC. It was OK, but not as nice as Savannah, and a longer drive on day 2.
On another trip, we drove straight through... that was a bit too much.
We just bought a motorhome and I am itching to book my next trip. Luckily next time we wont need a hotel, just a safe place to stop and eat and catch a few hours sleep.