nepean
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Sep 23, 2000
DD is bringing BF with us this year. They are both in college and working PT. He makes more than I do. They do not have any student loans with scholarships and living at home. Since he is coming we have changed our hotel reservations from a one bedroom suite to 2 bedrooms. The additional cost is approx. $1000. We are driving down so there is no additional transporation costs. He is bringing his own spending money, paying for his Disney ticket and most meals. I will provide snacks, food on the road (cooler), breakfast is included in the room rate.
My question is should he be expected to contribute to the additional room cost or am I being cheap thinking he should. He is eating here at our home 40% of the time and seems to almost live here. His home family life stinks and he stays away as much as possible. His family do not treat my DD similarly for anything. They tend to be only interested in themselves. I do not want to be used (which I am sometimes feeling) but I do not want to be taken advantage of. He has never travelled even though his parents take at least two trips a year. And yes he most certainly has the cash available. He drives a brand new truck and eats out when he doesn't eat here.
Nepean
My question is should he be expected to contribute to the additional room cost or am I being cheap thinking he should. He is eating here at our home 40% of the time and seems to almost live here. His home family life stinks and he stays away as much as possible. His family do not treat my DD similarly for anything. They tend to be only interested in themselves. I do not want to be used (which I am sometimes feeling) but I do not want to be taken advantage of. He has never travelled even though his parents take at least two trips a year. And yes he most certainly has the cash available. He drives a brand new truck and eats out when he doesn't eat here.
Nepean