I just want to say that today in the mail I received a sizeable gift card for Sams/Walmart from my sister (larger than the amount I suggested you give your inlaws). I cried
. No judgement from her and her spouse over why we are short on savings to cover my husband's unemployment (I am a fulltime nursing student and our extra funds were paying for tuition and childcare); just a huge pick me up, and a way for us to buy food or toilet paper so that what money we do currently have can be allocated to mortgage, utilites, and insurance. I have to admit that before we found ourselves in this position I was clueless about how it feels. I didn't know how to empathize with others who were in this position. Now I will never be the same person again. I will give when I have it to give, and I will pay this kindness forward to anyone I am able to. It means more than anything when my friends and neighbors tell me to let them know if there is anything they can do to help us. I just had a classmate offer to make a meal for my family
. I am grateful that I have people like that in my life
. I hope we get through this sooner than later, but if unemployment drags on I know we will manage. I am taking advantage of programs that we qualify for, but MI (at least my county) has a 6 month backlog on applications for assistance
. Thanks to my sis I don't have to stress over that this week. Anyway, it sounds like your family is much larger than mine. If you love your SIL, help them out in some way, if you don't even like them or feel they are not worthy, then let them fend for themselves (only you know what kind of people they are). You seem like a caring person from your posts, so I imagine you want to help them in some way.