Well certainly with 4 kids you don't get too much time to... be alone.
So, just relish the being alone (together). Use the Jacuzze tub together, take walks on the beach at sunrise together, check out the lake together, use the Jacuzze tub together, order room service, get some noodles and just float in the pool together, use the Jacuzze tub together, take a nap together, go looking for turtles late at night together, just sit on the rocking chairs on the back porch of the lodge together. Just relish being together...
Take it slow... and enjoy your lover, and best friend.