your worst break up story... someone you dumped nothing mean please

[mommiepoppins]

i had a loser boy friend that I went out with for uh a month tops and I thought that he was to clingy so I broke it off with him and he would call my house non stop I felt so bad until he would call playing jurney songs not saying a word just the music. I was like hello its 1993 uhhhhhhhh get with the times... so then my friend and i called his house and his mom said " girls stop fighting over my ----" we were laughing so hard that was not why we were calling....we were trying to get him to stop calling

 

[MushyMushy]

Sounds like a creep I dated about 14-15 years ago. We only went out for a couple of months, and when I broke up with him, he sceamed and cried! He stalked me for a few months after that, to the point of keeping a log of my whereabouts. He didn't frighten me because he was so pitiful, but he drove me nuts! I got married to DH a couple of years later, and when we were leaving the church, who was mowing the lawn next door, but that whacko!

I just ran into him in the grocery store a couple of days ago when I was with DH. It was so funny! I saw him coming down an aisle, so I ducked out really fast and made DH go get what I needed in that aisle. Then I practically ran through the store. We were laughing. I see ex boyfriends all the time and we have perfectly friendly interactions, but this one's just

 

[barkley]

knew a guy who should have known better than to marry the woman he did (his uncle had been married to one of her aunts and knew how over involved the mom was in the woman's life) but....after several years of trying to make the marriage work and her refusing to even discuss the negative impact her mom had on their relationship-on superbowl sunday one year they are supposed to go to her mom's (if she was'nt at their place they had to be at hers every evening or weekend) and he begs off saying he'll come over later. when he does'nt show she goes home to find a note saying "sometimes things just don't work out" and a bsns. card for a divorce attny. he changed his cell phone number and refused to talk to her again (said 'she never wanted to talk when we were together why should i make an effort now').

sad thing is several other relationships (non marriage) ended the same way for her-guys just left a note (she never learned from any of the experiences).

 

[FlyingBelle]

I dated a really nice guy in college, but he just wasn't "the one" for me. We had only dated about 2 months or so, so it wasn't really serious. Or so I thought... he apparently thought differently. It was the end of the school year and I figured I'd have the summer to myself... wrong! He signed up to work at the same camp as me (I'd been working there every summer for about 6 years - he lived on the other side of the country and had never even heard of it before). Lucky me, he showed up at all-staff weekend, and in front of all my friends got up and gave a speech about how he should have been a better boyfriend to me, blah, blah, blah. I was SO embarassed because no one knew I had dated him.

Needlesss to say, the following week we were doing some rock climbing training, and somebody thought it would be funny to have him hold the ropes for me... wasn't so funny when I swung around and crashed into a rock!

He really was a nice guy (ignoring the rock crashing thing)... he evenutally married a very nice girl (not me!)

 

[ducklite]

I had been going out with a guy for a couple of years, and it just wasn't working out for a ton of reasons. I told him it was over in no uncertain terms, but he just wasn't getting it. He kept going on like everything was fine, calling me every night, stopping by my apartment and leaving notes when I wouldn't open the door, etc.

I changed jobs (not because of him, but I got a better one) and when my lease came up I moved and changed my phone.

He actually had the nerve to call my mom and ask her if she thought I was mad at him! She told him he'd have to ask me.

Anne

 

[offwegotoneverland]

In high school I had a guy write me a letter saying I love you (fill in real name here) for 15 pages (like writing lines over and over).

Apparently this devotion was supposed to change my mind. We ended up being mostly friends a few years later and the disagreed over something (I think it was me having DS before DH and I got married but can't be sure at which point he (the high school boyfriend) was married to someone else). Fast forward 8-9 years and he has started sending me emails on my birthday.

Weird thing is I cannot (short of him maybe googling me?) figure out how he found me as we have moved twice across the province!

 

[kelleigh1]

I was dating this guy who was a professional baseball player. (Not a very good one, so you wouldn't know him.) Anyway, as we know, athletes are famous for being unfaithful. Well, when I met him, friends of ours told me that he had a girlfriend. When we got together, baseball season had ended and he told me that he'd recently broken up with her.

We were involved for a few months, but little things just weren't adding up. So one day, out of the blue, I started to wonder what his messenger password was. Now I'm not the type to usually do something like this, but something told me that I should try it. I logged in on the first try and saw that every person on his messenger list was female with the exception of one (and that person, I knew). So then I logged into his email and I found that he sent almost the exact same romantic email to me and to another woman on the same day. Then I also found that the girlfriend that he'd supposedly broken up with before we started seeing each other...he'd sent her an email telling her how much he loved her on the same day that he and I got together.

So what did I do? Nothing at first. A few days later, someone else got into his email and then sent an email to every woman in his address book calling him out as a liar and a cheat. He was furious. When I talked to him that day, I told him that with everything going on, I thought we could use a break from each other. (We'd been having stupid arguments before I discovered he was cheating, so this excuse seemed perfectly valid.)

To this day, he doesn't know that I had proof that he was a liar and a cheat. I saw him about a year later and he wanted us to get back together, but I told him I didn't think that was a good idea. The last time I saw him, I introduced him to my husband (my fiance at that time) and the look on his face was priceless. My husband knew the story so he thought it was really funny when we saw him because he was still clueless.

And no, I really didn't send that email to all the women in his address book...but I did compare notes with that girl at one point and we discovered some very interesting things.

 

[mommiepoppins]

I was dating this guy who was a professional baseball player. (Not a very good one, so you wouldn't know him.) Anyway, as we know, athletes are famous for being unfaithful. Well, when I met him, friends of ours told me that he had a girlfriend. When we got together, baseball season had ended and he told me that he'd recently broken up with her.

We were involved for a few months, but little things just weren't adding up. So one day, out of the blue, I started to wonder what his messenger password was. Now I'm not the type to usually do something like this, but something told me that I should try it. I logged in on the first try and saw that every person on his messenger list was female with the exception of one (and that person, I knew). So then I logged into his email and I found that he sent almost the exact same romantic email to me and to another woman on the same day. Then I also found that the girlfriend that he'd supposedly broken up with before we started seeing each other...he'd sent her an email telling her how much he loved her on the same day that he and I got together.

So what did I do? Nothing at first. A few days later, someone else got into his email and then sent an email to every woman in his address book calling him out as a liar and a cheat. He was furious. When I talked to him that day, I told him that with everything going on, I thought we could use a break from each other. (We'd been having stupid arguments before I discovered he was cheating, so this excuse seemed perfectly valid.)

To this day, he doesn't know that I had proof that he was a liar and a cheat. I saw him about a year later and he wanted us to get back together, but I told him I didn't think that was a good idea. The last time I saw him, I introduced him to my husband (my fiance at that time) and the look on his face was priceless. My husband knew the story so he thought it was really funny when we saw him because he was still clueless.

And no, I really didn't send that email to all the women in his address book...but I did compare notes with that girl at one point and we discovered some very interesting things.

thats so funny

 

[preshi]

I broke up with someone I was dating where I worked because I had met my now hubby and wanted to date him. Well when I told "crazy" that I was breaking up with him (I was already headed that direction anyways because he was a weirdo) He flipped out and threatened to kill DH and me. We had to threaten him with a restraining order and to top it off one day I went out to my car and he had slashed all 4 tires, thankfully because when it got to the shop I was also told he had cut my break line as well. I quit my job there and I believe "crazy" was fired not long after that. It wasn't a good situation but we got throught it.

The worst breakup that happened to me was my BF of a year and a half (we were talking about marriage although we were very young) broke up with me the day before my 18th birthday because he didn't want to buy me a present!! A week later he came crawling back and I told him I had met someone new. It wasn't really true but he hurt me pretty badly, I was madly in love with him...jerk

 

[HaleyB]

I dated an older man once. I was 18 he was about 30. In retrospect he was pathetic right from day one, but I was impressed by a guy who owned a nice car and took me on real dates.

At some point we were talking and he said he would never marry me. No offense, but since I had some long term health problems, he had decided he could never marry me. So first of all, we were only dating, who said anything about marriage. Second that is the most shallow and offensive thing I had ever had anyone say to me. So I ditched him. Right there on the spot. Buh-bye.

He lived about six doors down from me (condos). I guess he was a little upset that I dumped him because he started leaving me long (like 12 pages long) letters and other trinkets at my door. Plus he would knock on my door and when I told him to get lost he would sit on my doorstep and cry. After awhile I just stopped answering the door.

A guy friend came over one night and this man I had dumped comes over and bangs on my door. He is screaming about how I have a guy in there, lol.
Nice.

A few weeks later he moved away and sold his condo.

 

[kimwim8]

I was dating a guy in the Navy. We had gone to church together before he enlisted, but we had never talked. My grandmother actually gave his mom my number and thought we'd make a cute couple. So anyway, he calls me from his base (several states away from home) and we made plans for a date. We ended up dating for close to 2 years. It was a long distance relationship, and I think that helped us to last that long...but we definitely loved each other, and had talks of marriage.

He told me that he was going out to sea on a 6 month cruise. He couldn't give me any more information than that, but that he'd call (always called collect) when he went into ports. He called from the first one or two ports and then I didn't hear from him for months. I pretty much got the hint, but it was just WEAK. I called his mom & she'd make excuses for him like "oh, he only had time for one phone call before they shipped out, so he called here and I was gonna call to let you know". whatever! I started writing him letters just to get him to man-up and end it already (although, between you & me, I had already moved on ). I was actually just looking to get some money he owed me for the collect calls (about $300!) He finally did send a letter. He had gotten back together with a high school girlfriend. In the letter he told me to go see his mom for the money. Um, no thanks - I'd rather just make a clean break!

Now, I have a great life with my DH and my children and I say THANK YOU to him for sparing me!!

 

[kelleigh1]

Haley: that sort of reminds me of the guy who once told me that I'd never find anyone better than him to date. I told him "I'd rather be alone". And this was after he showed me that some girl had given him her phone number. He was so full of himself.

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

My first break up. We "went together" for a weekend. But I was falling to peer pressure. I didn't really want to hook up with him. So when I broke up with him--he was devestated. And his brother spit on me.

My worst break up was a boyfriend in high school that I was dating for wayyyy too long. I tried breaking up with him several times--but always got suckered back. I didn't even take him to the Jr Ring Dance (like a prom-but in celebration of our passage to becoming seniors). He was a sophomore anyway.

The icing on the cake--I didn't tell my mother my now lack of interest in him. We were moving away and he was sooo down in the dumps depressed over it. So my mother made him feel better by telling him a bunch of optimistic stuff.

Unfortunately I didn't break up with him before I left--my gosh he was clingy and I was a chicken.

But needless to say--we are no longer together LOL!

Not really a mean story--but a lot of crazy teenage crap I didn't elaborate on. No matter how honest I was with him--he just never accepted it.

 

[goofygirl]

In high school my friend had a party on a Saturday and her younger brother started telling me he had a crush on me, he put the moves on me and before we knew it, we were making out. I really did not want to go out with him, and I guess I should not have led him on, but I was enjoying the makeout session and I didn't want to stop and talk!

On the following Monday in school, he was telling everybody we were a couple.

I realized the damage I'd done, and told him "no, we are not a couple." He hated me for the longest time afterwards and said all kinds of terrible things about me all over school.

He's now married (not to me) and has 2 kids, lol!


In my adult life, my ex BF and I broke up via email after 3 and half years together. A breakup is bad enough, but to do it in an impersonal way like that is really bad!

 

[barkley]

i knew someone who got dumped via voice mail-the message consisted of the person saying "hi it's me, just wanted to say..." then you could hear that song that goes "yes, it's over call it a day-sorry that it had to end this way-no reason to pretend, we knew it had to end some day....". sounded pretty cold to me at the time, but given that he stalked me after i broke up with him, and a subsequent girl he dated LEFT THE COUNTRY to get away from him-it actualy may have been an effective way of dealing with him.

 

[va32h]

My college boyfriend and I both worked at a bookstore. He dumped me while we were on our 15 minute break. And we had to work together the rest of the night. And he couldn't figure out what the big deal was.

 

[kmp1191]

I dated a guy for about 3 1/2 years. (J)..he lived 2 hrs away from me. I would go see him just about every weekend. I was 18-20, had my own apartment, 2 jobs, and was paying my way through community college. He was 23-25, lived at home, worked part time at a gas station, then quit that job to work part time as a bartender. I asked him several times to move up to my area and he said, "There's nothing up there for me." HELLO...what am I, chopped liver??! Anyway, I started taking some EMT training, met a guy (DH ), and became really good friends. We would go out for pizza or ice-cream after class and talk about my boyfriend, and his psycho ex-girlfriend. Anyway, one night after a wedding reception, I stopped by his place to say hi... ..... I called J the next morning and broke up w/ him over the phone! He wanted me to come down there that weekend so we could talk about it...I told him that I didn't think would be a good idea, that after 3+ years, I was tired of being the one to bend over backwards to make the relationship work. Well, a year and a half later he calls, (it was actually 3 days before my wedding!!) He wanted to know if we could get together for drinks, that he wanted to apologize for being such a schmuck while we were together. I told him that it really wasn't a good idea, since i was getting married in 3 days!! After he stuttered for a minute, he said congratulations and good bye.

 

[mommiepoppins]

My first break up. We "went together" for a weekend. But I was falling to peer pressure. I didn't really want to hook up with him. So when I broke up with him--he was devestated. And his brother spit on me.

My worst break up was a boyfriend in high school that I was dating for wayyyy too long. I tried breaking up with him several times--but always got suckered back. I didn't even take him to the Jr Ring Dance (like a prom-but in celebration of our passage to becoming seniors). He was a sophomore anyway.

The icing on the cake--I didn't tell my mother my now lack of interest in him. We were moving away and he was sooo down in the dumps depressed over it. So my mother made him feel better by telling him a bunch of optimistic stuff.

Unfortunately I didn't break up with him before I left--my gosh he was clingy and I was a chicken.

But needless to say--we are no longer together LOL!

Not really a mean story--but a lot of crazy teenage crap I didn't elaborate on. No matter how honest I was with him--he just never accepted it.

spit on you thats just the worst gross you are the winner of this thread you poor thing

 

[chelle3807]

My worst break up was with my first love. He broke up with me on 9/11 and I found out 2 days later he had been cheating on me. Was never expecting any of that!

 

[L107ANGEL]

Ok, no arrest on this one but I am loving this thread!