Would you tell?

justhat said:
Yes, it is amazing how kids can twist information and believe such incredible stories. Good for you for checking into things more before just telling the mom what you heard. My BIL is a senior is high school and at the start of the school year one of the kids in his class killed himself. Very tragic and clearly the boy had many underlying issues. My BIL (and all his friends) told us the reason he killed himself was because the school is mean. It's a Catholic school and all the boys have to wear uniforms, have certain haircuts, etc. Well supposedly this boy's hair was too long so the school told him to cut it, then they said he didn't cut enough, so he cut it again, then it was too short so he killed himself. Now any logical person(i.e. not a teenager) would know that the haircut was not the cause of his suicide, but that other things were going on (his parents were in the middle of a very nasty divorce, among other things, but my BIL insists this could not have anything to do with it). The crazy thing is that my in-laws kinda believed this (that the haircut caused his suicide) until my husband convinced them otherwise. Imagine if they went around telling parents all the rumors my BIL brings home!?!

Wow, that would be so painful for the parents. :sad2: Something a little different happened a while back with neighbors of ours. Their 16 yo son killed himself, but a couple of kids started suggesting he was murdered. Those poor parents! It was going to be hard enough having to deal with a suicide, but then they had to live with that doubt and were so frustrated that the police kept telling them otherwise.
 
I don't have kids, but here's my thoughts. If someone told you something they'd heard from this source about your kid, would you believe them? That would factor in a lot.

Otherwise, if there were any kind of evidence my kid had gotten high, even once, yes I would want to know about it, especially if you are good friends with the mother/father.
 
Yes, yes, yes...definitely. (I am going with the idea that the info came from a reliable source)

I would report any drug use I had reliable information about. I have seen too many kids get sucked into a very damaging lifestyle (and a few are dead now...yep DEAD) and parents finding out way too late in the game. I would definitely find a way to let them know.
 

JimB. said:
If the source is "unreliable", absolutely not.

If it is confirmed by a "reliable" person, yes.

But G-O-S-S-I-P can be very damaging, & that may be what it is...........

ETA: I have a teenage daughter, & the amount of "stuff" she comes home & says she has heard that turns out to be false is staggering. Most of what she tells us turns out to be crap.


Totally agree!!!

I heard the other day I was dead! :confused3
 
Michie said:
Totally agree!!!

I heard the other day I was dead! :confused3

:faint:

did you check the obituaries? maybe it was true! :rotfl2:
 
Bottom line is it really

TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD

be part of the VILLAGE not an outsider watching from the sidelines
 
tmt martins said:
Bottom line is it really

TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD

be part of the VILLAGE not an outsider watching from the sidelines

No, It takes good parenting.

As for the Gossip or Rumor. It could lead to bad things for the child. Unless you can verify it, be very careful. It is the same type of thing as when people hear a rumor about someone cheating on a spouse. Unless you have first hand info, you should stay out of it. It could ruin lives.
 
daddydisneyworld said:
No, It takes good parenting.

As for the Gossip or Rumor. It could lead to bad things for the child. Unless you can verify it, be very careful. It is the same type of thing as when people hear a rumor about someone cheating on a spouse. Unless you have first hand info, you should stay out of it. It could ruin lives.


Yes and GOOD parenting also includes OPENEST so I should be able to go to my kid and say here's what I heard what about it.At lease they know things are being reported back to you.
 


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