Would you switch resorts? Two rooms at ASM for one at POR?

Maybe you've already considered this and decided against it, but another option, to avoid crowding but still be able to supervise the teens, is that you and the boy cousin stay in one room, and your girlfriend and the girl cousin stay in the other room.
 
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Thanks for the input everyone! We are going to stick with two rooms, mostly because of the bathroom issue, but also to avoid bed contention.

Maybe you've already considered this and decided against it, but another option, to avoid crowding but still be able to supervise the teens, is that you and the boy cousin stay in one room, and your girlfriend and the girl cousin stay in the other room.

We considered this initially, we decided against it because we weren't sure if the older girl cousin would be comfortable staying with just my girlfriend, but we asked her and she doesn't mind at all so we may do this if only to make sure they're out the door quickly!

Matt
 
Thanks for the input everyone! We are going to stick with two rooms, mostly because of the bathroom issue, but also to avoid bed contention.



We considered this initially, we decided against it because we weren't sure if the older girl cousin would be comfortable staying with just my girlfriend, but we asked her and she doesn't mind at all so we may do this if only to make sure they're out the door quickly!

Matt




Not sure of the difference in price, but you could do a family suite at ASMu instead of two rooms, which keeps you all together, but gives you two a bedroom, and each kid a separate sleeping space, as well as two bathrooms.
 

4 people, 2 bathrooms. OR 4 people, 1 bathroom. I'm sorry but it is not hard to figure out that the best possible solution for everyone's sanity and sanitation would be the two "bath" rooms. I cannot even imagine everyone wking about the same time and you know what happens when you first wake up. Do everyone a favor and keep the 2 rooms. I would think the two younger siblings would actually like the idea of their own room.
 
For me, I would choose POR, no question. Nicer pools, beautiful grounds, calmer setting...I'm with the PP that said when I was a kid (and now as a parent with my own kids) there was never any of this "won't share a bed" business.

As far as getting kids out the door in the morning...they are older teens. Presumably, they're accustomed to getting out the door for school, sport events, etc. If it's important to them, they'll find a way to do it. If they aren't ready in time, "oh well--we're leaving now and you can meet up with us when you're ready. Too bad you'll miss out on breakfast, the FOP fast pass, etc."
 
What does this have to do with the OP? He refers to them as teenagers.
It's a direct response to the post I quoted. That's allowed here, afaik.

Yes, he referred to them as teens. Eighteen is both a teenager and legally an adult - able to enter into a contract without any other adult.

The (any) 18 year old could/can rent a hotel room in Florida, including when any/all other occupants are under 18. There does not need to be an older person (cousin, parent, friend, acquaintance...) connected to the reservation at all.

Saying it could be problematic is disparaging.
 
It's a direct response to the post I quoted. That's allowed here, afaik.

Yes, he referred to them as teens. Eighteen is both a teenager and legally an adult - able to enter into a contract without any other adult.

The (any) 18 year old could/can rent a hotel room in Florida, including when any/all other occupants are under 18. There does not need to be an older person (cousin, parent, friend, acquaintance...) connected to the reservation at all.

Saying it could be problematic is disparaging.
Sorry, but saying getting teenagers up and ready in the morning can be problematic is not disparaging in any way. It’s just reality. An 18 year old being able to book their own room has nothing to do with this post or the original question. The trip and room are a gift. He refers to getting them up in his post.
“Eighteen is both a teenager and a legal adult” has nothing to do with this.
 
4 people, 2 bathrooms. OR 4 people, 1 bathroom. I'm sorry but it is not hard to figure out that the best possible solution for everyone's sanity and sanitation would be the two "bath" rooms. I cannot even imagine everyone wking about the same time and you know what happens when you first wake up. Do everyone a favor and keep the 2 rooms. I would think the two younger siblings would actually like the idea of their own room.

They don't care too much one way or another, they're actually pretty onboard with one adult + one teen in each room. They're siblings and act like... well... siblings :)

For me, I would choose POR, no question. Nicer pools, beautiful grounds, calmer setting...I'm with the PP that said when I was a kid (and now as a parent with my own kids) there was never any of this "won't share a bed" business.

As far as getting kids out the door in the morning...they are older teens. Presumably, they're accustomed to getting out the door for school, sport events, etc. If it's important to them, they'll find a way to do it. If they aren't ready in time, "oh well--we're leaving now and you can meet up with us when you're ready. Too bad you'll miss out on breakfast, the FOP fast pass, etc."

They're older teens who will be deep in what will be their last summer vacation in some ways, what with college and jobs on the horizon. They're not known for their positive morning attitude when they're used to it (who is?) and they're not going to get up early for half the summer just to be ready for this trip. I wouldn't either, I miss those summers off... Either way, they'll need a little get up and go help from us seasoned adults who are used to not sleeping!

As far as "won't share a bed", I'll cover that in the next block:

Yeah, but since one teen sibling is a boy and the other is a girl, it could be a little weird for them to share a bed.

This is really the big part of it, especially given that the younger one is a known bed hog and likes to antagonize his sister. It's just not comfortable for them in any way and there's no reason they must share a bed so making them do it so I can stay at a nicer resort on one of my three trips this year is frankly selfish and I'm kind of appalled at the suggestions that I tell them to get over it. There's more to life than who paid for what and using that as some sort of ultimatum for getting my way is incredibly childish in my opinion. It's simply not an option, everyone will be comfortable or we will find a way to compromise.

It's a direct response to the post I quoted. That's allowed here, afaik.

Yes, he referred to them as teens. Eighteen is both a teenager and legally an adult - able to enter into a contract without any other adult.

The (any) 18 year old could/can rent a hotel room in Florida, including when any/all other occupants are under 18. There does not need to be an older person (cousin, parent, friend, acquaintance...) connected to the reservation at all.

Saying it could be problematic is disparaging.

It's not disparaging, it's the truth, I'm not sure what the point of your input was except to stir the pot with semantic debates? One of them will be 18, yes, she will legally be an adult. She's still a teenager, still a kid, and still deserves to be comfortable. It has no bearing on anything here except as some bizarre opportunity to be technically correct.

Like I said in my last post, we are staying with All Stars for the added space, two rooms at POR was considered but it's an extra ~$1000 that just isn't worth it. I had no idea such a question could become this heated!

Matt
 
Matt~ We live in the world now where you have people who give "kids" too much say in everything they say or do or buy ........and then others who say I'm the adult who cares what a kid thinks etc.

You sound like a fair guy. My parents generation never took the kids opinions or wants into consideration.

There's a happy medium for everyone......glad to hear you have consideration for all the people in your party: party.

Have Fun!!!!:dogdance:
 
Maybe you've already considered this and decided against it, but another option, to avoid crowding but still be able to supervise the teens, is that you and the boy cousin stay in one room, and your girlfriend and the girl cousin stay in the other room.

This sounds odd to me. First off, they're teens. My kids went on field trips with school in 8th grade, and the kids had hotel rooms without an adult in the room (I would find it strange if they did - ew). So they don't need supervising. Plus that would split up the dating couple.

OP: Glad you decided to keep 2 rooms. 2 bathrooms is much better!
 
This sounds odd to me. First off, they're teens. My kids went on field trips with school in 8th grade, and the kids had hotel rooms without an adult in the room (I would find it strange if they did - ew). So they don't need supervising. Plus that would split up the dating couple.

OP: Glad you decided to keep 2 rooms. 2 bathrooms is much better!

I also had trips in high school where we were left unsupervised, it's less about the supervision in this case and more about peace, comfort and morning motivation.

As far as we go as a couple, we live together, we have plenty of privacy, I can manage to not have some for a week. I'm not sure why so many people are so worried about that! :)

Matt
 
Quote “I had no idea such a question could become this heated” Matt
Welcome to the Dis:p:stir::D

I think you are amazing to bring them to Disney as a gift. I agree 2 bathrooms and each a bed is much more comfy, wasn’t thinking about boy/girl at 1st.
Anyone know if 5th bed at POR is same size as pull down in Poly studio?
If so it is a decent size, I totally get trying to push for POR:headache:
I do love my amenities ;-)
Happy planning:-)
Kerri
 
The OP stated that he has made his decision, so I'm not sure why we are still discussing this....
 

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