Dean - you want to step in??
Sure but with the intent of helping them think and make the best choices they can for their situation.
Thank you for all the thoughts. Our current plan is to visit WDW or one of the other DVC properties at least every other year with the intention of banking points so that we have 2 years worth of points to use at a time. We may wind up going every year, but for now we aren't ready to mentally commit to that. We do have the cash on hand so we wouldn't have to finance. I've spent a lot of time pricing week-long vacations at several of the DVC deluxe villas/resorts and it typically winds up being at least $6k (including park tickets). Part of our thinking is that doing that every other year is going to add up to a lot more than the cost of DVC and we'd be vacationing by ourselves most likely. If we wanted friends and family to go we'd have to stay at a value resort. Have any of you purchase your DVC membership through the resale market? I have seen a few websites offering them for resale, but it does make me a little nervous. My understanding is that resale purchases do not get all of the benefits of a person who purchases directly through Disney. When I talked to a guide a couple days ago he told me we could get on a wait list for BLT and that they had had some openings come up recently for that one.
I still see a lot of unknown's here, esp whether you have enough Disney history/experience to have a good feel for what your long term habits/wants might be. A lot of people go a time or 2, either stay on property or wished they had and then look at DVC assuming they'll have as much fun every time for the next 30 years. Some don't, others do.
I don't know your situation nor do I want to in detail, but the statements of having the cash on hand (which also implies to me you don't have other debt) and only being able to do values (even with guests) doesn't fit together very well. If this is a one time windfall situation I'd be very cautious.
As for resale, there are restrictions. IMO, none of them reduce the true and real value of DVC. Put another way, the options lost with resale in almost all cases would cost you money if you used them rather than saving you money. The few that wouldn't are simply neutral and not guaranteed. NONE of them would save you money over simply buying less DVC points and paying cash for the other options (
DCL, ABD, etc). If you're set on the MK area for MOST trips, I'd look at BLT resale. If you just want to stay there part of the time and try all the resorts, I'd consider other cheaper options like SSR for even more savings but with some compromises.
I think you're making a mistake comparing the price of a full trip including tickets to DVC. Your best comparison, IMO, is room only compared to what you would pay if you were going on cash (value, moderate or deluxe).
I'd spend time figuring out what you want to do and what's best for you. IMO, that usually takes several months of active investigation. As a rule, I'd rather see someone underbuy (lower resort, less points) than overbuy. IF you decide to proceed, I think it's far better to buy at a cheaper WDW resort (assuming WDW is the goal) than to overbuy. Get comfortable with the resale process, paying thousands for a false sense of security might not be the best choice.