Would you ever remarry?

[safetymom]

My husband passed away at the age of 47. We had a talk once that if anything ever happened I should be sad for awhile and then get on with life.

It has been 9 years and I have dated but haven't found anyone I would want to marry at this point.

I was married for 19 years and would do it again in a heartbeat if I found the right man.

Being on my own is fine but it would be nice to share life with someone.

 

[HollyJoy]

I voted YES... only because I wouldn't want to be alone. I wouldn't marry just anyone, it would have to be a very special person to do that again!

 

[Stepharoonie!]

Yes, yes I would.

 

[Poohbear123]

'DH' and I have been together for 19 years...not married. We Co-habitate. He was married 3 times, and our relationship has lasted LONGER than ALL 3 of his Marriages. I was married to my Kids Dad and it was a nightmare. My present 'DH' has had some doozies too, but together, we are OK.

 

[Brer_Papa]

Nope....can't see me waltzing down the aisle again...

 

[diznee25]

Depends.....

If our marriage ended in divorce, then no, I wouldn't remarry. Regardless of what time this happened in my life. My thought here is, if I can't make this marriage work, then it's not for me. I'M ONLY TRYING THIS ONCE!

If our marriage ended because I lost my husband due to some tragic, then I'd consider remarrying. But I'm leaning towards staying single if something happened to him. Don't think I could bring myself to love someone else in that way.

Diznee25

 

[Blondie]

Yes, I probably would.

 

[pumba]

I would or could never think of life without my hubby.....we have been best buddies for 40 years ......I can't believe it when I say it......unbelievable.......
I dont know ......probably never ever in this lifetime

 

[snoopy]

Awww Pum. That is so sweet. Happy Anniversary to you and Mr. Pum.

 

[DSNY FN]

Yes I would re marry and if somethng ever happened to me I would expect my wife to be happy and if that meant re marrying then that is great as long as she is happy and the kids are happy.

 

[aprincessmom]

I used to think no, once was enough and I had all the things I needed...a fabulous daughter, a nice house in the suburbs, a good income, and goals to work towards.

But then I met a wonderful man and I find myself thinking that if he asked, I'd say yes.

So very opposite of this time two years ago

 

[buddy&wooz]

I probably would, but dh has me spoiled, he'd be an awfully tough act to follow! I''m sure I'd have a hard time finding someone to live up to my expectations.

 

[mtblujeans]

No. I've had two husbands, four kids, and two grandkids. It would be time to do some things for me.

 

[Octoberbride03]

Quite honestly, i struck gold when i married Dh. But if he died ahead of me, I can't say i won't remarry. I also can't say i would remarry. If i fell in love for a 2nd time i might do it. And i might not. If you'd have put in a maybe for a choice, that's how i would have voted.

I've learned "Never say never"

 

[Tuffcookie]

I don't think so. But I've learned never to say never!

TC

 

[Pin Wizard]

Wow! I used to have all these answers. LOL! Actually, I'm widowed 11.5 years now. When my husband first died, my sister asked me if I saw myself remarried. I told her...NO! As the years went by, things changed. Rather than just NO! because I couldn't fathom being married to someone else, it became...No, once was enough! That lasted over 10 years. Now I would really like to remarry. I've spent way too much time alone in my opinion. But that's 20/20 hindsight. I didn't feel that way as I was going through the motions. So, YES! I would remarry! And I'm looking!!

 

[Nutsy]

I'd like to think I would if I found a nice man to love & who in turn loved me.

 

[jvas]

I don't think anyone would marry me tho!

 

[Alice28]

I think I would remarry, but I would be quite cautious about it. While I feel DH and I have a strong marriage, and neither one of us is going anywhere, it has not been easy.

 

[Pooh's Pal]

I spent 12 good years with my SO, but when he passed away 8 years ago...I thought...Never would I find another man to fill his shoes...he was so wonderful to me and my DD....but 8 years have passed now....DD is going off to college next fall...Just me and the dog left(and he's 14!).....so, the answer is YES, "In a New York Minute" if I found the right guy!
But a new man in my life would have to really love me, DD and one thing is a must...he'd have to Love going to Disney!
That in itself doesn't sound hard, but, at age 50??!! I'm not putting my hopes up to high! But then again, I really haven't been looking too hard either, rather settled in being alone!