PrincessGrownUp
Earning My Ears
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- Jan 3, 2013
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First off.... and I am not trying to be snarky....
-1- I notice 2 things- you got 'laid off for a while' and $17,000 in cc bills on gas and groceries.That is a LOT of gas and groceries for a 'little while'. I say this b/c the first rule of managing your own money is understanding clearly HOW you got in this position, so you can avoid doing it again.
-2-paying the minimum is not good-take serious look at your budget and finances and funnel EVERY extra cent into the biggest bill first,make min. payments on the 2nd one,till the 1st is paid off, then take ALL the payments you were aiming into bill#1,and funnel it ALL into bill #2.(see pp comments about strict budgeting) and DO NOT use the cards AT ALL while doing this.
-3-Don't bother with an agency, you have 2 big bills,pay them off. The difference in interest will be smaller,the faster you apply yourself to my point #2 anyway.
-4- RED FLAG-If you are $17,000 in debt, and can only pay the minimum monthly, and you *say* you won't take a disney trip till it's paid off,then WHY would you need to keep that card 'for the offers'??? Saying this indicates (again,just reading a post,I don't know you) that you *might* just want to take advantage of more 'discounts'....and hanging on to that card 'just in case' will somehow benefit you....
If you can't afford to pay your bills,and you are worried about a few bucks in monthly interest (and you should be) then you should be 1000% ready to ditch that card and not rack up more debt to get that 'discount'.
-5- I hope you don't think I was trying to be snarky or mean, I am not. You asked for suggestions, those are my best ones.
Again, I don't know you, or how you got into this, but I do know the only way to get out is to get serious. You don't need an agency for this- you need a serious budget plan,one you can live with,and a payment schedule that will get you ahead of the game,it will take you quite a while, but it is doable.
No, I don't take it as snarky. I appreciate the help. My cc debt started with an unexpected 4k vet bill then snowballed during 2 layoffs.
I admit, there are some 'fun' things on my bills but it's mostly the necessities including lots of pediatrician/specialist co-pays.