I've pretty much been hanging around the sidelines until this round, but most
of the Zetas were on my friends' list at the very beginning.
Tishke has coordinated the rounds. She's assigned pals. You fill out some
answers to questions in email. She will give you a pal to spoil. You in turn
have been assigned to a pal. So you have a secret person you're dying to
figure out, and you are the secret person to another.
Each round, choose a mule nobody has seen, so you can remain anonymous.
The object is to meet with the pals in the game and in messages here, so
that you get to know someone you might not know very well otherwise.
I discovered some common ground with my secret pals, so it's been fun.

We also like to gift stuff as we see fit, trying to fulfill some wishes.
In my case, I received some trees to decorate a new room. I'm not saying
what I gave as a secret pal, as to not reveal myself too soon! LOL!
But the way I joined was to read the new Round Four sign up thread and
followed the rules set by Tishke. The rules were basically that you need
to be an adult (woman) who is willing to commit to time spent getting to
know the pals.