1) The above is "probably" good advice.
2) But, when my girls were that young, they were grown-up.
3) OK, so they THOUGHT they were grown-up.
4) They actually liked the Afternoon Tea.
. . . we got them into dresses (Yes, REAL dresses!)
. . . valet parked and walked through the lobby and to podium
. . . let them tell the hostess we had a ressie
. . . allowed the waitress to push in their chairs
. . . one had the Mrs Potts, the other had regular tea
. . . AND, the behaved throughout the afternoon
NOTE: We have done afternoon tea at Disney and other places
around Orlando (eg. Peabody, Ritz), and they always bring up
their first "tea" at GF. By the way, we now have granddaughters
we take to afternoon tea.