Well, I think it goes something like this. MOST people who go to WDW don't really think about it, plan for it, or educate themselves about it. So to most people, the idea of an afternoon break might seem alien.
There's about 100,000 registered users on this site. WDW gets about 35 million guests a year. So even if every DISer, with a family of 4, went to WDW once a year, the 400,000 of us would still only be just over ONE PERCENT of all WDW guests. So even if we all acted in unison, we'd have little effect on the overall picture.
Let me give you a little example. Last May in a VERY crowded MK I ended up with 3 extra FastPasses for Splash Mountain. Splash had a 70 or 75 minute standby line on that very hot day, and ou extra FastPasses had their time window right at that time. I went to the end of the line looking for a party of 3 to spread some pixie dust on them. I found two women in their 20s or 30s with a little boy. I offered them my FastPasses and they asked me what they were and why would they want them?! I can't imagine walking into a WDW park and not knowing what a Fastpass is, but I guess that's why I hang out here in the first place.
Another example ... my mother-in-law insisted we use her friend the
travel agent for our trip last May. She was clueless. I had to teach the TA about Disney's Magical Express. I saw her at a party about two months ago, and she asked me some more questions about DME -- she works as a TA and prides herself on selling a lot of Disney travel yet she still didn't understand DME! So even people who are supposed to be "in the know" aren't always.
DISboards is a great place ... I'm so glad I found it, and I hope you are, too!