You most definitely will have a wonderful time over 2 days in both parks! Believe us here on the DIS, because we wouldn't steer you wrong, that it is no exaggeration to say that at Disneyland Resort, there is truly a wide variety of people from all over the USA. Well, all over the world, really. There is a mix of people of ALL ages - and that is the 100% truth - as well as all sizes, all races, all lifestyle preferences, all cultural backgrounds, everything. Disneyland is not like other amusement parks that really target younger people and load up on the thrill rides. People of any age can find things to do at DLR. I am not a senior citizen yet but I am not a thrill ride person at all either and never have been. About as 'thrilling' as I will get is Star Tours (that may be too much to deal with) or Pirates of the Caribbean!!!
If you don't mind the sensation of heights, I think you will find Soarin' Over California in DCA to be an absolutely stunning, refreshing, invigorating ride, full of scents and breezes and panoramic vistas. It is not a thrill ride but it simulates hang gliding. It takes a little bit of getting used to, and I am sure we all had to close our eyes in certain scenes, but it is so worth it and is truly beautiful. People who don't live in California say they want to move here after riding Soarin', and people who used to live here and moved away say they want to move back! And those of us who already live in California just appreciate our beautiful state even more when we go on Soarin'.
As for dining, aside from the previously mentioned Blule Bayou and Wine Country Trattoria, located in DL and DCA, respectively, there is also Napa Rose in the Grand Californian Hotel (did someone already suggest that?), which is a fine dining restaurant that gets rave reviews form critics and customers alike. Carnation Cafe in DL is a charming, quaint restaurant along Main Street which has good food and good people watching. Plaza Inn is not table service (it is buffeteria-style), but it is beautiful inside and you may enjoy seeing it. Steakhouse 55 is a nice place, located in the Disneyland Hotel. Yamabuki is located in the Paradise Pier Hotel.
As for rides and attractions, there is SO much you can do. In Disneyland, don't miss the Storybookland Boats, Mark Twain, It's a Small World (newly refurbished), Pirates, the various vehicles on Main Street, King Arthur's Carousel, Haunted Mansion, etc., etc. If Fantasmic is showing when you are there, make sure to see that. Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln is returning to Main Street, as is the Disneyland Gallery - both great to see. Of course, the Tiki Room and the Jungle Cruise in Adventureland can't be missed. You may enjoy Honey I Shrunk the Audience in Tomorrowland, and if you like 'game rides,' try Buzz Lightyear.
In DCA, you must catch the Aladdin musical and also the Animation Building featuring clips and music from all sorts of Disney features in the main room, and then all kinds of fun stuff in each of the little sub-rooms. Another game ride is Toy Story Midway Mania, which is great fun (my new favorite). There is the lovely King Triton's Carousel too. You can see the Muppets 3-D and visit the Redwood Creek Challenge Trail, sip a nice fruity beverage at the Cove Bar or grab some wine.
And don't forget all the shops and the clever, hidden details around the parks and great photo opportunities. Make sure to use PhotoPass to get some great pictures of the two of you together, with Disney enhancements. If you like characters, try a character meal!! Stroll around the 3 hotels - especially the Disneyland Hotel (waterfalls and a nice koi fish pond) and the Grand Californian, which has a piano player, a lounge and a fireplace and comfy sofas in their huge, dimly-lit lobby. Perfect place to sit and rest/relax with a nice drink and have a chat. Have fun!!
