We stayed at POR last Feb over President's day. It was our first onsite trip, so I have nothing "Disney" to compare it to.
Honestly, the resort itself is very nice. Bob in the lounge was fun. Boatwrights was delicious! The food court was a food court. Had stuff for the kids. Food was ok. Very crowded in the am. The kids liked the pool and slide (they were 10 and 12), but the pool activities were geared for much younger kids, so they didn't participate.
We were disappointed with the room. I thought it would have been nicer based on what I read about it. It was newly renovated, but very cheaply done. The towels and sheets were very poor quality. We weren't in the room much, so it didn't impact our vacation. I was just a bit surprised that it wasn't on par with a Hampton Inn type room.
At time, it was $2k more to stay at a deluxe. I couldn't justify that price difference.
I would love to stay at AKL! It looks amazing!