DMRick said:And take a chance of being suspended for auction interference? I'll pass.
Ugh. Such an overly litigious society we live in. eta: I guess it didn't cross my mind to see the negative side of my attempt to do something thoughtful!
It's not like I was defaming the seller, I simply asked the bidder if she knew how much the auction sold for retail. (I remember now that it was a child carrier.)
I suppose things might be different when you're dealing with "other" kinds of people... but we mothers who bid on children's items on Ebay actually appreciate it when fellow mothers "look out" for us.
I'm so glad that the bidder I contacted was kind enough not to call the Ebay police on me!