I am in the same boat as you Lisa. Three trips to Disney under my belt, and this August we are going to do Universal for the first time.
I have been lurking in these boards for a while now, and have gotten so much great information (Thanks to all the Universal Vets that seem to answer everyones questions! This is a very friendly forum!)
I have been debating what to do, disney or Universal first. I think I have come to the decision to do Disney first. I too will tour Disney at a more relaxed pace because this is our third trip there. But, the kids are comfortable with the attractions there, and by the time we are done Disney, the eight year old will have built up her confidence to try some of the bigger rides at Universal. If I brought her in cold - I dont think she would enjoy spidy or MIB, she would be too aprehensive. Last year we started off slow at Disney but by the end of the trip, she was trying to see how many times she could do R&R in a row!
Also, we are the value/moderate types, -- but decided to stay on site at Universal because of the FOTL factor, and the reviews of these hotels. I have booked 4 nights at HRH (used
AAA and got my Loew's first member card -- waiting to see if its worth it to purchase an AP if the rates drop closer to our trip -- thanks guys for all the tips and info on how to do this!)
Anyways, this looks to be very nice hotel, and I plan to make it more of a 'vacation/relax' time at the end of the trip. With 4 nights and 5 days, I think we will able to really enjoy the resort at HRH, and the pool, which is a huge draw for the kids. We are going at low season (end of August) and coupled with the FOTL I think we should easily do Universal at a relaxed pace.
Other factor -- my two oldest kids are thrill riders. I was worried they would not enjoy Disney as much if we did Universal first. I love Disney, but I think my kids may end up enjoying Universal more. Just looking at the Hulk and Duelling Dragons gets them excited.
Anyways, that is how I decided. And I just wanted an opportunity to say how great this forum is for Universal Newbies -- great information and very helpful people.
Oh- one last point, When I started using the search function on this forum, I would only get a few threads to pull up on topics like Cabanas or such,, it was because my setting was set for I think only two weeks automatically. So I wonder if newbies are out there trying to search and not coming up with answers, maybe its because the setting on the search function is only for a short period of time.
Thanks