WEll, I can say I know where you are coming from as far as the rude employees! I flew CO a few years ago with my then 14 month old who didn't walk yet and my DD 5. Had the double stroller and the baby's carseat. (Let me clarify that I always buy my kids a seat no matter their age.) I knew it would be hectic and a challenge, but I thought I would have at the very least courtesy if not a LITTLE help. No, think again.
The first flight, the FA told me very rudely that she didnt' know where I though I was going to put "that carseat. This flight is full!" I said I planned to put it under my child's behind in the seat that I bought for him. She then told me very rudely that it was a good thing he had his own seat. (Yeah, that is why I BOUGHT it.) When I asked for juice for each of my kids when they were serving beverages, you would have thought I had asked for a case! "You want a can of juice for EACH of them???" Yes, I did and seeing as all the other passengers were getting full cans of pop, I didn't think that my children who each had their own seat should be any different.
The next time through, I asked one of the flight attendants who was standing at the entrance of the plane if she could help me. The baby was sleeping, I had a diaper bag and carseat, my 5 yo to watch and the stroller to fold up. I could have pulled off everything but folding that stroller up with no hands. She suggested I either leave the baby in his stroller and carry everythign else on then come back for him, OR put the baby and 5 yo in their seats and then come back for the stuff. I explained that I was travelling alone and she looked at me like "So what?" At this point a very nice business man who was behind me said, "Oh, my goodness have a little compassion lady!" He then took my carseat from me, folded up my stroller, took my DDs ticket and led the way to our seats AND had the carseat strapped in before I got there. The same guy helped me get off the plane saying he knew I couldn't rely on anyone from the airline to help me.
The trip home, was just as unfriendly.
Since then I have not stepped foot on a Continental plane. I have flown several other airlines and always found them to be nicer!