I like breakfast buffets, prefer sit down for dinner. This time I'm trying Crystal Palace and Boma for breakfast.
Germs are everywhere, so I don't get too concerned with that. Purell is fine, though I hate the smell, I would just advise anyone w a thyroid problem to avoid any antibacterial soap, gel, cleanser, lotion or even toothpaste that has *triclosan*- can be really dangerous.
There's not that much difference between food from the steamer tray in the back or the steamer tray on the buffet- not all food at sit downs is made to order and served immediately, though of course, fresher is always tastier.

I agree, though, if I saw someone handle an item inappropriately, I would avoid it or ask for it to be replaced. Touching the spoon handle doesn't bug me
Buffets are convenient, with a good selection and especially good for picky eaters- when my cousin was little we almost always did buffets because she would do the same thing the OP mentioned- "i don't like this pizza". "this hot dog is mushy" "what is this sauce?" "this isn't mommy's chicken" etc.
Some people like do all counter service, avoid buffets, no counter service, all sit down, all buffet, no sit down. I think it's great Disney has so much variety. You can do any of these options or you can sit in your resort room and just order room service. It's totally up to you.
