mrsltg said:
As long as they are not hurting anyone else they should be left alone. Give the option of food, shelter, and clothing and then leave it alone. I don't agree with forced hospitalization/medication unless the person is a or is in real danger. People have lived without creature comforts for a lot longer than they have lived with them. Sleeping on the streets, while not my idea of fun, is a choice as valid as obtaining a mortgage.
Let me tell you a little story - this may turn into a rant as I am currently living out the nightmare and these events just occured this past Friday, Saturday, Sunday and today.
My mother, 68 yrs. old lives in a small suburb or Portland, Oregon. She has been mentally ill for as long as I can remember and is showing signs of severe dementia and schizophrenia.
She lived in an income subsidized HUD apartment where all the fellow tenants were elderly or disabled. Her only source of income is $775.00 monthly Social Security.
She is a hoarder and tends to get agressive if anyone trys to touch her "stuff" she also acts like a 2-3 year old and when she does not get her way she throws tantrums that would make any toddler step back and take notice.
Due to her excessive "stuff" her apartment management company was able to obtain an eviction for "Sub-Standard" housekeeping despite that Senior Protective Services was involved and informed the judge that her apt, yes full of "stuff" was neat and orderly not dirty. They also informed the Judge that all resources had been exhausted and that if they allowed this eviciton then she would be homeless and the only option would be a homeless shelter. Now, she paid her rent on time each and every month.
Judge didn't seem to consider the consequences and ordered the eviction.
Now, before everyone jumps up and down and suggests that she come live with me, understand that she does not like me, I am a threat to her. She is violent and dangerous. Her own shrink advised me a few years ago to never be alone with her and to not allow her access to my children.
Over the past 6 months and for the past 5 years I have attempted to obtain Guardianship of her so that we could make some decisions for her regarding her health care, cash management and living situations.
Due to the liberal mental health laws we have been unable to get any type of legal intervention. Despite the fact that she doesn't know who we are, gets lost regularly and asks strangers driving by to take her home, drains her checking account at the local dollar store, has been legally charged with stalking another tenant and is now being evicted.
We knew the eviciton was going to happen soon. After much discussion with a several mental health workers and her Sr. Protective Service worker, it was decided that the best thing to do was to let her get removed and hopefully throw a fit, get taken to jail where the person who handles the intake of the "non criminal" type things had already been given her name and could then direct her for some psych treatment thereby getting her into the "System" and giving us the leverage we needed to go after the guardianship, which by the way I am going to have to pay all the legal bills for (2-5K) depending on if she or a disability advocate fights it.
Sometime Friday afternoon she was removed from her Apt. by the local Sheriff. She was taken by the Protective Service worker to a homeless shelter 40 miles away (despite the plan above that the Protective Service worker was aware of and agreed with). She had nothing with her other than her purse. I didn't find out until Saturday morning where she went. I contacted the shelter and had a long talk with the director who informed me that Mother had already had an incident when she didn't get her way and was most likely not going to be allowed to stay. Well, Now What????
Of course it is a Saturday, there is not a single social worker available and she is now 40 miles from her home.
At approx. 5 p.m. on a dark Saturday night with it being 40 degress, the shelter tells her she has to leave. She wouldn't, she didn't know where to go. The cops were called, they take her to the other shelter in town who took one look at the fit she was throwing and refuse to take her. The cops then take her to the Psychiatric Crisis Center, they can't help, they only deal with Suicidal/Homicidal persons. They send her to the local hospital.
Thank God for a part time Social Worker who was diligent and finally figured out thru several phone calls how to get ahold of me. When she heard the story she was furious. To make a long story short, Mother was placed on an involuntary hold(not easy to get) and transported to a Geriatric Psych Hospital. She is currently there against her will for about 5 days and with any luck, we will now be able to pursue Guardianship and place her into some type of care home where we don't have to worry about her not having a roof over her head.
Sleeping on the streets as stated by MrsLtg is not always a choice, it is the result of a screwed up system that instead of trying to take care of our mentally ill which is very expensive, decided to give them so many rights that those that need the help the most can't get it and those that want to help can't.