Lisa, I am so glad to hear that your Mom is okay! I am exactly the same way you are, I always act like I "know" it is nothing to keep everyone else from worrying more, even if I am freaking out inside!
Good find on the cookies, that is an amazing steal. Every dollar saved helps. One of my sisters is getting married in September of next year, and I'm helping her with the wedding plans. We are all doing a ton of research to try to save as much as possible. Thankfully we found a fantastic place in our town that will do the wedding on one side of their property (and on the water) and then the reception on the other side. They do all their own catering too! And they are about 1/2 the cost of anywhere else and have great reviews. Good luck with the continued planning!