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I've had both procedures.
The amnio was with my first pregnancy, and I was 37yo. I think I had it around 16 weeks, and of course the reason it was suggested was for 'advanced maternal age'. GEE, I hate that term!
Anyway, they use an ultrasound machine to make sure they know where the baby is, then use a rather large (long) needle to puncture through the uterus and collect some amniotic fluid. You feel the pinch (like any other shot) and three little electrical zaps (I'm not sure I'm describing that right, I believe the doc said it was the sensation as the needle punctures through layers of tissue.) She told me it would take about one minute, so I slowly counted to 60. She was right on the dot.
They had me go home for the remainder of the day (I was working FT at an office job), which was fine for me because I was sweating bullets and unable to focus anyway.
With my second pregnancy I was offered CVS, which carried the same risks as amnio, but could be done much earlier. Since I'm a huge worrywart, I opted to find out earlier.
I actually don't remember as much about the CVS, for some reason. My doc referred me to a specialist for the procedure, because he'd done it many, many times. I believe I had the procedure around 11 weeks, and I do remember feeling a tiny bit of cramping as the needle took a little sample of placental tissue.
I did have a placental abruption around 16 weeks; however, I think if this had been related to the CVS, it would have happened much sooner than 5 weeks after the procedure. Fortunately, the placental abruption healed itself, and the pregnancy progressed successfully.
I wish you all the best, and would encourage you to do whatever you can for peace of mind. If you feel you'd cope better not knowing, then skip the procedures. If you feel you want to know up front if there's a problem, then go for a procedure.
