KatMark...Please don't think I'm picking on you or anything, but 2 things stood out in this post....
One...When you mentioned that you were dissatisfied with the TIME in which it took you to have your meal and that you had a rude hostess....
These 2 factors contributed to your displeasure of your meal. (I'm gonna generalize here based on your experience...) A lot of times, someone will post "We had a horrible meal there" and sometimes it has nothing to do with the food...but other factors. Now, you went on to say that you simply didn't care for the food, so that contributed to YOUR dissatisfaction with your meal.
The other thing that stood out is...."you only learn by trying yourself". Very true statement.