Which would you rather???????

[saratogadreamin09]

If you could only do one or the other what would you do???????????


Get married and have a marriage that lasts forever or have kids single



I would definetely choose to get married because I think I would need a husband or boyfriend to help me raise kids. I think I can care for kids BUT I also think that I would need someone to be there with me all the time. And, once a kid grows up and gets older they'l leave you, most likely a husband wouldnt leave me once they turned 18 LOL

 

[imabrat]

1 word honey: Divorce. 50% of all homes in America are broken by divorce. You will be a child's mother for life, but not a wife for life.

I'd rather have kids. Biological children. Then I'd have someone to live on thru me. Besides, you don't need to be husband and wife to raise kids. I could very well have a boyfriend.

 

[saratogadreamin09]

1 word honey: Divorce. 50% of all homes in America are broken by divorce. You will be a child's mother for life, but not a wife for life.

I'd rather have kids. Biological children. Then I'd have someone to live on thru me. Besides, you don't need to be husband and wife to raise kids. I could very well have a boyfriend.

I knew someone would say divorce LOL so I'm going to change the original thing to a marriagethat will last forever

I also originally put that if you choose to have kids your single, no boyfriend or anything

 

[PAdisney1995]

Thats a hard one!!! I want both. I guess Id say married. I would want my kids to have a father!!!!

 

[DollfieDreams]

ive always thought that it wouldnt be so bad to be a single mom. my mom ws one, my aunt, and practically all of my girlfriends. its hard for me to imagine that it could be better with a father in the picture.

its not easy being a single mother. thats for sure. but i dont think itd be so bad.

but i would like to get married and have kids. but if i had to choose: i deffinitley want children more than anything.

 

[bouncytigger22]

I want to be in a happy marriage =]
But, that's probably never going to happen lol.
He's out there =] ahaha

 

[bananda]

marriage. i dont think i could be a single mother. i'd need someone to look after me sometimes, like when i get all emotional or sick. plus i want someone to love me for my whole life.

 

[Sparx]

i'd marry my husband. i'd rather have a childless marriage than never marry. after all, we could adopt.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Of course I would rathar get married before I have kids, but I will be having kids regardless.

I've always had this plan that if I'm not married by a certain age, then I'll get pregnant on my own (lol, it is the 21st century after all). I really really want to be a mom. I know it would be hard, but I've always pictured myself having kids.

Being without a husband would be tough, because I'm such a romantic. But you're never to old to fall in love, and you do get to old to have kids.

So yeah, my answer is probably going to be different from everyone else, lol.

 

[saratogadreamin09]

Of course I would rathar get married before I have kids, but I will be having kids regardless.

I've always had this plan that if I'm not married by a certain age, then I'll get pregnant on my own (lol, it is the 21st century after all). I really really want to be a mom. I know it would be hard, but I've always pictured myself having kids.

Being without a husband would be tough, because I'm such a romantic. But you're never to old to fall in love, and you do get to old to have kids.

So yeah, my answer is probably going to be different from everyone else, lol.

I 100% get where your coming from

I really want kids and I could see myself being a mother but like you said, I'm also ver romantic and I just couldnt imagine my life without someone like a husband or BF to love

 

[chisnpeke]

Have kids and be single.

 

[chisnpeke]

Of course I would rathar get married before I have kids, but I will be having kids regardless.

I've always had this plan that if I'm not married by a certain age, then I'll get pregnant on my own (lol, it is the 21st century after all). I really really want to be a mom. I know it would be hard, but I've always pictured myself having kids.

Being without a husband would be tough, because I'm such a romantic. But you're never to old to fall in love, and you do get to old to have kids.

So yeah, my answer is probably going to be different from everyone else, lol.

This is EXACTLY my plan!!!

 

[Cinderelli16]

I'd have kids and be single.