We are going to pretty much do what we always do. If anything is overly busy, we will FP those rides. This year, we do have to high tail it to either fantasyland or adventureland and get DD on a ride. LoL She is very excited about rides this year!!!
I did read on ALLEARS some comments by grads who have attended in the past. From what I can tell, the party for them starts at 11 pm. They are either bussed in at that time, or spend time, like rlove said, at PI beforehand. So we may be in luck and MK may be low attendance that day.
We are just going to play it by ear. I am an infuriatingly lax planner.

We know what we want to do, and will try, but we really have no "order" for rides or anything. Just a couple things, like grabbing a FP for Space Mountain, then riding something else or going to the bakery for crumb cake...stuff like that.
We received our castle tags and our package vouchers and stuff, not the ME tags. Those probably won't be here til at least the beginning of next week.
I cannot wait!!!