It depends on what kind of acknowledgement you're interested in. At MM they made my husband a chef's hat. At Biergarten the band will announce a birthday if you let the server know.

I was thinking more along the lines of Mickey head birthday confetti at the table, a free birthday cupcake or a card signed by Disney characters. She wouldn't want attention drawn to herself so she wouldn't like an announcement or singing like you find at your local restaurants.
Every place does something different and there is no guarantee of acknowledging a birthday, so first and foremost don't count on something.
All of these are at the discretion of the server so you cannot guarantee that it will happen at a restaurant. With thousands celebrating something special everyday at DW there is no way Disney can recognize everyone. If she wears her birthday button she will get Happy Birthday wishes from many castmembers, but that is the only thing that is guaranteed. We've gotten cupcakes or other desserts, confetti on the table, cards, champagne (on our anniversary) at some places and absolutely no acknowledgement at others. If you want recognition for certain it is best to plan and pay for it yourself.I was thinking more along the lines of Mickey head birthday confetti at the table, a free birthday cupcake or a card signed by Disney characters.
Some restaurants will ask if anyone is celebrating a birthday and make a single announcement/recognition for everyone so she wouldn't be singled out, but one place I remember seeing the servers sing Happy Birthday at a table was at Via Napoli.She wouldn't want attention drawn to herself so she wouldn't like an announcement or singing like you find at your local restaurants.
All of these are at the discretion of the server so you cannot guarantee that it will happen at a restaurant. With thousands celebrating something special everyday at DW there is no way Disney can recognize everyone. If she wears her birthday button she will get Happy Birthday wishes from many castmembers, but that is the only thing that is guaranteed. We've gotten cupcakes or other desserts, confetti on the table, cards, champagne (on our anniversary) at some places and absolutely no acknowledgement at others. If you want recognition for certain it is best to plan and pay for it yourself.
Some restaurants will ask if anyone is celebrating a birthday and make a single announcement/recognition for everyone so she wouldn't be singled out, but one place I remember seeing the servers sing Happy Birthday at a table was at Via Napoli.
I was thinking more along the lines of Mickey head birthday confetti at the table, a free birthday cupcake or a card signed by Disney characters.
WOW! Your son was dusted! Cool!Our son got all three for his birthday last fall at Crystal Palace.
To get a card (if you get a card) did you just tell the hostess when you checked in you were celebrating a b-day? I can't find anywhere to note a b-day when making dining reservations. We are celebrating our dd's b-day and she is so excited as she's always wanted to be at Disney for her bday. We are going to CP for breakfast and CM for dinner. That's a great idea about taking our own card as well to get the characters to sign.
I booked our dining reservations yesterday for my daughter's 16th birthday surprise trip. I called (407)WDW-DINE and asked the cast member on the phone to make a note on our reservations about it being my daughter's birthday.To get a card (if you get a card) did you just tell the hostess when you checked in you were celebrating a b-day? I can't find anywhere to note a b-day when making dining reservations. We are celebrating our dd's b-day and she is so excited as she's always wanted to be at Disney for her bday. We are going to CP for breakfast and CM for dinner. That's a great idea about taking our own card as well to get the characters to sign.