This is a tough question. There will be many answers and suggestions. I don't know what your budget is or if you will have a car but if I had to choose a resort to just hang out at I would go with the BC/YC or BWI. At the BC/YC you have a nice pool activity area for the day time and at night you can stroll around the boardwalk, have dinner, rent surry bikes and even see a little of Illuminations. So that set of resorts would get my vote. In fact we were thinking of doing exactly that when we come back from our
DCL vacation we are planning in a few years when DGD gets old enough.