There you go! Everyone is different, so every opinion is different. For my family, my dd wanted to see Princess Aurora, so I made a reservation at Norway, she loved it, had the best time, all her favorite Princesses were there, she was in awe, and she's 8, it was everything she loved, the food was her favorite too - cinnamon rolls! Fresh Fruit!! (everything else, not so much)
Now I felt that she really wanted to eat in the castle. So *I* was upset, and did everything to make that 'dream'...

she was 'not so much' she really loved PSB, that was where it was at...
I still think the ambiance or knowing the whole world recognizes Disney with the castle, the castle is a must do... but if it were just dd, she's fine with Norway...
and I'm debating adding Park Fare...
