Another vote for MNSSHP. We have been to the Halloween party twice now, and it is so much fun for the whole family. You can't go wrong with that one. We have done BBB too, and I agree with the others. At 3 years old, your DD won't miss it, especially if you can fit a princess dress and tiara in the budget. Really, that gets them just as much attention in the parks as being made-over by the Fairy Godmothers in Training.