Four Seasons, Swan, and Dolphin may be at the level you are seeking.Well at least which resorts are good offsite?
Do the hotels mentioned also charge parking? I can’t remember if swan and dolphin did the last time I was there.No truly offsite resorts get perks. Hiro suggested those that do that might fit what you are looking for. The only others with perks are www.disneyspringshotels.com. All are on or enclosed by Disney property.
There are lots to consider offsite, perhaps start with a brand you like.
Do the hotels mentioned also charge parking? I can’t remember if swan and dolphin did the last time I was there.