I say Disney. So far, no one's jumped off that ship.
Oh, on a side note, on a recent Princess Cruise I went on we met a couple who had a special needs son. They had done Disney and had a few problems with their kids programs. They said their son prefers the Princess kids program and the parents feel more comfortable leaving him with Princess than Disney. I know it's probably the only one you will hear of on these boards, but there are a few out there who prefer other ones!
WELL I SAY DCL ALL THE WAY BUT . . .
You have not been reading on the DISboards . . .teen that jumped off the Magic in St. Thomas on a dare.