ITA. (I Totally Agree).
First off I'd like to say, that I am sorry that you feel that way. I want you to know you're not alone on that. I do feel that same way...seriously, I do. I know of two other people in real life who played VMK, but they hardly got on, cause they got busy with their real life. But what I do know, is that you are right. It isn't okay. VMK affected peoples lives, and others may not see it that way. It changed me in a sense that no one will ever know.. I can't really go up to my friends and say stuff about VMK, cause they don't want to talk about it or whatever. When I played VMK, I had people as friends who had the same interests as me. In real life do I have that? No. I don't. I miss VMK, and as do many, many others do as well. I get depressed about it being gone every so often.. but not all of the time. VMK was like another life to me, haha. A life that I called, "home."
That is all, sorry if some of it didn't make sense.. but at least to me it did, and that's all that's gotta matter to me anyway, haha.