We're a family of 4 that flies to WDW from Wisconsin. Last year we paid around $6000 for 10 days total WDW in one of the value resorts. Plus we had $800 in Disney gift cards that we had saved for the year prior to going. That's all food/lodging/airfaire/spending $$ and it was cheaper to get the discounted rooms than the free dining. (our oldest son would have an adult meal plan but ate more off the kids menu which I was told you can't do on the dining plan) Plus, we are generous w/our spending $$ as we love our souveniers . We did Ohana, LeCellier, Tusker House character meal, 50's, Sci Fi, Liberty Tree, and the rest were counter service. We did 4 breakfasts in the room (garden grocer, plus bought a case of water) We don't have any air miles or points or anything because the only time we fly is when we go to Disneyworld. I thought we did pretty darn good.
We're planning a couples vacation for Dec. of 2015, and I am very curious as to how much it will end up costing us. 8 days total, and we'll probably do a moderate (CBeach) this time.
For me, I don't compare WDW vacations to any other vacation as far as costs go. I know it's always going to be more expensive going to WDW, but to me, it's worth it, as I put my WDW vacations as some of the best times in my life. (we are Disney dorks also) It is pure magic when we're there. And I have never felt "magic" with any other vacation. Yes, they have been fun, but not "magic". If that makes any sense to anyone else out there reading this.
In my eyes, a camping vacation is no where near as wonderful as a WDW vacation. But that's probably because that's all we did when I was a kid, and I hated it. I truly grew up thinking I would never ever get the chance to go to disneyworld. That it would be out of my reach, my whole life. I grew up seeing so many of my friends go to WDW, and it made me so sad. Like I was looking into another life. (dramatic I know)
Happily, I'm 41 and have been there 3 times now. We're now to the point where we will be able to go every other year. I'll be going till I'm 90. Funny how you find the $$, and the time for what you deem important to you.