Heres the thing. We are leaving in 19 days. DS8 and DD4 have no idea. I have been giving them clues everyday but not the kind of clues that they can really use to figure out where we are going. On the way to the airport I want to give them one final clue that will let them both figure out where we are going. For DS I was thinking about the Birnbaums guide for kids by kids (any opinions?) but I am not sure what to get DD. I sort of want her to be able to figure it out first because I think she is going to be more excited but I can't think of anything that would be as obvious as the guide. She is 100% into the whole castle and princess thing but I'm not figuring out how to put the two together.
The day before you leave have the kids look for clues. Each clue leading to the next until they reach the last clue which will show where they are going. I did this for my son's birthday a couple of years ago. For example: "you use me to wash away the dirt" ( the kids then go to the bathtub for the next clue ) The clue in bathtub could read; "Brrrrr.... it's cold in here" and the kids go to the freezer for the next clue and so on...
and then your dd will have her very own invite from the princesses 
