what qualities do you look for in a bf/gf

[DramaQueen]

inspired by the 'i would never date anyone who_____' thread,
what qualities DO you look for in a bf/gf.
looks-wise and/or personality-wise
what initially attracts you to someone? what would keep you in a relationship?

 

[DramaGirl]

-open-minded
-caring
-sense of humor
-sweet
-musical
there's way more, but that's a start

 

[imabrat]

Looks wise:
Dark hair and light (blue or green) eyes ALWAYS get me!

Personality wise:
The quiet, shy ones that manage to smile geniunely when needed intrigue me. But, I love the loud, outgoing guys too. Just generally someone who is happy, clean, and not irritatingly arrogant or annoying.

 

[m!ssemmx0]

lookswise:
as far as hair/eyes go, anything really. i really like tall guys with nice broad shoulders though. they don't have to be the muscular/athlete type...i think skinny guys are cute.

personality-wise:
they have to be able to make me laugh. they have to be smart, and genuine. they can be shy, but not painfully shy. they have to respect me and have my back, and accept me for everything that i am. it doesn't matter if they're a little awkward, but they have to be confident in themselves.

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

inspired by the 'i would never date anyone who_____' thread,
what qualities DO you look for in a bf/gf.
looks-wise and/or personality-wise
what initially attracts you to someone? what would keep you in a relationship?

What initially attracts me to a guy?

Look wise:
I don't really have any specific type when it comes to looks. I haven't really found myself attracted to any red heads (except Ronald Weasley) but other than that I like all hair colors/ eye colors.

Personality:
Mysterious guys always draw me in. I like to figure them out. I am also attracted to a guy's smile or laugh.

What would keep me in a relationship?
Someone who is caring and loving, someone who is proud of me being his girlfriend, someone who is kind and wants to spend time with me. Someone I can count on and trust, and someone I can laugh with and watch stupid movies with. Someone who accepts me for who I am, and loves my flaws.

 

[I Am What I Am]

Looks wise:
Dark hair and beautiful eyes.

Personality:
Someone who I can have an intelligent conversation with. Someone who can make me laugh when I'm depressed and can make me smile when I'm sad. Someone who'll call me just to say "good morning" or "good night" or "how was your day?" Someone who'd see exactly what I am and what I like and love me for it.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Looks:

Tall
Dark/long-ish hair
In shape/athletic built
Cute definitely

Personality:

Someone that can make me laugh.
Someone that I feel comfortable around.
Sweet,
Doesn't care what his friends think about him talking sweet to me,
Respects his mom and other women in his family.
Respects me, my beliefs, my wants, and my morals.

 

[m!ssemmx0]

What initially attracts me to a guy?

Look wise:
I don't really have any specific type when it comes to looks. I haven't really found myself attracted to any red heads (except Ronald Weasley) but other than that I like all hair colors/ eye colors.

Personality:
Mysterious guys always draw me in. I like to figure them out. I am also attracted to a guy's smile or laugh.

What would keep me in a relationship?
Someone who is caring and loving, someone who is proud of me being his girlfriend, someone who is kind and wants to spend time with me. Someone I can count on and trust, and someone I can laugh with and watch stupid movies with. Someone who accepts me for who I am, and loves my flaws.

haha, same here...but only the character in the books, strangely.

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

haha, same here...but only the character in the books, strangely.

Same

 

[WDWtraveler27]

-attractive
- I prefer brunettes
- spanish and english speaking
-gets my sense of humor
-has a sense of humor
-just as crazy as I am...or at least close to being crazy like me
-likes everything disney
-likes nature
-isnt very materializtic(sp?)
-believes in God
- is very joyful
- intelligent
- down to earth

I'll add more later

 

[PigletGurl]

-attractive
- I prefer brunettes
- spanish and english speaking
-gets my sense of humor
-has a sense of humor
-just as crazy as I am...or at least close to being crazy like me
-likes everything disney
-likes nature
-isnt very materializtic(sp?)
-believes in God
- is very joyful
- intelligent
- down to earth

I'll add more later

you just described moi

im taken tho and i am wayyy too old for you

 

[PosessedEeyore]

I honestly don't really care lookwise... the people who I've liked in the past were really not that "acctractive"
The only thing that I look for is somebody who has a sense of humor. I love being around people who can always make me laugh.

 

[Sparx]

-i like funny people.
-i like people who like adventures. (when matt and i first started dating we drove to 5 different counties on search of a video game that had just come out.)
-disney world fan is a must, since my family goes all the time.
-education is important to me, and i couldn't be with someone who didn't value -it the same way. (i was once, and he was talking about dropping out of high school cause it was "too hard" and i freaked out. he was so lazy.)
-i play video games a lot, so i'd need someone who was either okay with that, or would play with me.
-i love to eat out, its one of my favorite things in the world to do. i love trying new restaurants and stuff like that, so he'd have to like to eat out.
-i love art, and my apartment is covered in it (and disney) so he would have to be cool with that.
-i'm very independent, and i sometimes need alone time. it comes from being an only child.
-i love to spend money. i couldn't have someone who got mad at me for buying something like gum. (I know someone in a relationship like this, and i can't stand it.)
-i don't have a job, since i get paid a lot to go to school, my main job is to keep an A/B average (and soon, just an A average) to maintain my scholarships. so if they just had to have me getting a pay check, they'd get over that.
-i love movies, he'd have to like those too.
-i love my cat more than people, so if he's mean to my cat he's gone.
-i love celebration holidays, like christmas and birthdays. i def. need someone who can get into the holiday spirit.

there's probably more, but thats all i can think of.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Likes fitness and health. Quirky, Honest, trustworthy, hardworking, ambitious, considerate, respectful, open, smart, likes school and learning, likes to volunteer, takes care of themselves, funny, laid-back but serious when they need to be. Likes disney, books, art, movies, and is enthusiastic about things. Like if we're working on a project and it helps people and we're competing in something, I want them to be enthusiastic. Not just be "Oh yeah, we have to do that. Ugh."

Fit, or at least healthy. (Not huge muscles, though) Doesn't matter their height, dark/red hair (sometimes dark blonde, I don't care for a lot of blondes though), glasses, green eyes, pale (I'm pale, and I love it.), and I love accents. ;] That's just usually what the guys I like, look like. I pretty much have a very wide range of what I find attractive though.

 

[Smiley.Socks]

Looks Wise:
-usually like guys with dark hair, but I'm not too picky.
-usually brown eyes too, but again it depends.
-tall, please.

Personality Wise:
-Funny. If he's funny he's in my good books.
-Kinda quirky.
-Is capable of having an intellegent conversation.
-Likes movies, music & comedy shows. enough said there, i think.
-Can deal with my strange moods. "/
-Likes my random quotes & facts.
-As long as he doesn't hate disney, i'll be fine. I can convince him.

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

I don't know...I don't really have a "type"

it usually just happens that I get attracted to that person for whatever reason. sometimes they're pretty smart and they're funny and just themselves...but definitly not someone who is younger or older than me; no matter how cute they are- that's a turnOFF for me.

 

[life of the party]

i don't really like a specific type of guy, looks wise. except i REALLY like tall guys. even if they are not as good looking as a short/regular height guy. maybe it's because i'm so short and am just amazed by their height? haha i don't know but being tall is a major plus for me. but it's not like i won't date a super tall person.

but i DO have to be attracted to you physically.

hair doesn't really matter for me, as long as you look good in it. same with clothes & such.

but personality is a BIGGIE. i'm the type of person that always thinks they are annoying someone so i don't usually text, call, IM, them first. or don't really start the conversation first in RL. that is unless i am very comfortable with them. i kind of need someone that comes after me. so a guy who is confident and outgoing is perfect for me.

a sense of humor is KEY. i can't date someone who i can't have a good laugh with. but on the other hand, they have to be able to take things seriously.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

you just described moi

im taken tho and i am wayyy too old for you

LMFAO Wanda! ur such a creeper! hahahahaha

 

[PigletGurl]

LMFAO Wanda! ur such a creeper! hahahahaha

 

[WDWtraveler27]

bahahaha