MB MinnieGirl
<font color=red>Elmo killer/Muppet murderer<br><fo
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- Jun 18, 2004
I'm a single mom to DD4, Maddie. She has the most tender heart, is smart as a whip and is more caring and loving than anyone I have ever known. She also has a quick temper and can be very explosive. High spirited to say the least.
Right now she is upstairs in her room screaming because she was supposed to be a gymnastics (her favorite activiy), but instead is not allowed to go because she came home and pitched a screaming raging fit, including slamming doors, yelling "I hate you" at the top of her lungs, throwing things, etc. All of this over nothing. It was because she didn't like the way a toy crown was fitting on her head.
She is now still screaming because she is not allowed to go. It breaks my heart in two
But I also know that she has got to learn this behavior cannot occur.
I have tried spanking, washing her mouth out with soap, taking away things such as TV, games, etc. I stick to my guns and am pretty consistent. However it seems nothing is working - it just keeps happening the next day.
It breaks my heart. I work and miss her all day. She is my angel, I love her dearly...I just don't know what to do. It's so hard and hurts when I've only seen her for 20 minutes before the fit starts.
So, after my long rant (sorry) what punishment has worked for you for tantrums and behavior issues?![Title :confused3 :confused3](http://www.wdwinfo.com/images/smilies/confused24.gif)
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Right now she is upstairs in her room screaming because she was supposed to be a gymnastics (her favorite activiy), but instead is not allowed to go because she came home and pitched a screaming raging fit, including slamming doors, yelling "I hate you" at the top of her lungs, throwing things, etc. All of this over nothing. It was because she didn't like the way a toy crown was fitting on her head.
![Title :earseek: :earseek:](http://www.disboards.com/data/smilies/eareek.gif)
She is now still screaming because she is not allowed to go. It breaks my heart in two
![guilty :guilty: :guilty:](http://www.wdwinfo.com/images/smilies/guilty.gif)
I have tried spanking, washing her mouth out with soap, taking away things such as TV, games, etc. I stick to my guns and am pretty consistent. However it seems nothing is working - it just keeps happening the next day.
It breaks my heart. I work and miss her all day. She is my angel, I love her dearly...I just don't know what to do. It's so hard and hurts when I've only seen her for 20 minutes before the fit starts.
So, after my long rant (sorry) what punishment has worked for you for tantrums and behavior issues?
![Title :confused3 :confused3](http://www.wdwinfo.com/images/smilies/confused24.gif)