There's several websites you can go to and check height requirements. Try allears.net and go under
Disneyland. You can view pictures, descriptions and height requirements- it's a great site!
As far as what to ride- holy moly was I wrong it what I thought my son might like vs. hate. He really surprised me and enjoyed Haunted Mansion, Pirates, the rollercoasters and of course everything in Fantasyland and Toontown.
Even if you don't think your little guy will be into the characters, I strongly suggest you hit Fantasyland then get to Toontown early and at LEAST visit Mickey Mouse. My son still talks about visiting Mickey at his house and it's been almost 2 years! On the plus side, if you get there right as Toontown opens, the characters are actually outside wandering around and Mickey was "waiting" for my son at his front door. Versus later in the day when he's at the end of the line in the "picture" room. And it's not nearly as busy first thing in the day- yuck...Toontown gets super crowded!!
My son also really liked Bug's Land and the kiddie rides at DCA but wasn't tall enough for the bigger attractions. However, Disney playhouse was a big hit!
Plan on seeing the parades, fireworks and Fantasmic (if it's there when you're going) as my son LOVED these!
I guess my main point is, don't bother planning too much! I had everything super planned and pretty much just tossed it all! We were there for my son's 1st visit and we did what he wanted to do. Even if that meant riding Pirates 3 times in a row- we did it! Plus it was nice and airconditioned- so I didn't mind at all!
Plan a few things (like what rides to do 1st), research height requirements and food options, especially if you have a picky eater and then just relax and enjoy!
