What makes you cry?

[DisneyDougforever]

Hey all.
I havent been on the boards for a while, because I've been so busy. Today was a tough day for me. My great-grandmother passed away and I really miss her. Today was the first funeral I've ever been to and Im quite sad. I was fine until I saw the open casket and heard/saw my mother crying. The actual part of my great grandmother passing didnt really make me cry, because she was very sick and she was ready, but seeing my mother and famliy so upset just broke me. So I have a question, what makes you cry and what do you do to deal with it? You dont have to answer, but I would greatly appreciate it if you would help me. Thanx

 

[::Snow_White::]

My great grandpa died over the summer. I went to his funeral and saw him in his casket. It's odd but it made me feel happy...the way he looked so peaceful.
All of the family deaths haven't hit me yet...even one from 5 years.
But it'll hit me...sometime.
Cry, cry alot. Crying is good, and it gets alot of emotions out. There is nothing wrong with crying.
Try writing out your feelings on paper...that always helps me.

I'm sorry.

 

[iImagine]

The prospect of moving.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

honestly i hold the sad emotions in and cover them up. its bad i know but i cnat do anything else with them

 

[Babyjustrun]

Death in general. There's been so much death going on around me, it's overwhelming.

EM:HE gets me, EVERY WEEK. I cry during that show no matter what.

 

[cra_z_dude_17]

ya the same thing happened to me. when my great grandpa died i was happy/sad that he passed on (he had cancer). the thing that made me cry was seeing my great grandma cry and my mom cry.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Its okay

if its of old age then thats the least of your worries...

In my family NO ONE has ever died of old age.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Death in general. There's been so much death going on around me, it's overwhelming.

EM:HE gets me, EVERY WEEK. I cry during that show no matter what.

1.What show
2. EM?
3.

Im sorry

 

[Babyjustrun]

ya the same thing happened to me. when my great grandpa died i was happy/sad that he passed on (he had cancer). the thing that made me cry was seeing my great grandma cry and my mom cry.

That's the hardest thing for me.
My grandmother died this past spring, and anythign and everything reminds my dad or my grandfather of her.
It's awful. Christmas will be tough, last Christmas was the last one without her.

 

[Babyjustrun]

1.What show
2. EM?
3.

Im sorry

Extreme Makeover: Home Edition

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

ahh gotcha

yeah that is a very touching show

 

[AngelInDisguise]

I'm so sorry. PM me if you want to talk.

 

[tinkerbelle22]

I'm so sorry

Hmmm, what makes me cry...death, definitely. The whole idea is awfully scary. I'm actually a total sobber in movies and TV shows. I cry in every single movie I see! But on a more serious note, I too hate seeing people I love cry when something has really affected them. I mean, my dad cries all the time, but only because he's sensitive like me I'm talking about when one of my parents or my grandma is really upset. When I was little, and my other grandmother died, I asked my mom, "you're not gonna cry, are you?" She didn't as much as I thought she would though, because my grandma was old and sick. My mom knew that was her time to go.

 

[FunkyMonkey]

Oh gosh.. I'm so sorry *huggles*. D:

I hope everything is well. -- It's always good talking to others or writing your feelings down on paper << like someone else said. Never bottle up your emotions or feelings, because one day you might just explode.. and we dont want that to happen. D: Whenever I need to, I always take my stuffed animal and talk to it. Yes, it's awkward, but it works! xD​

 

[2HOT2touch]

um, my father died when I was five and thinking about him makes me sad, but over the years I have learned to stop myself from crying if I end up crying for a couple hours because I can't hold it in anymore, I have also taught myself how to make myself look completely normal and act competely normal. I don't like people seeing me when I am sad or angry, I tend to lock myself up and wait for it to pass. It's probably not healthy but that's all I know, and it's probably never going to change. Like someone else said if you bottle up your feelings you will explode, it's happened to me before, I go into deep depressions some times because of it, so I wouldn't recomend what I do, it's pretty much hopeless for me, so don't start and get stuck like me.

 

[FunkyMonkey]

um, my father died when I was five and thinking about him makes me sad, but over the years I have learned to stop myself from crying if I end up crying for a couple hours because I can't hold it in anymore, I have also taught myself how to make myself look completely normal and act competely normal. I don't like people seeing me when I am sad or angry, I tend to lock myself up and wait for it to pass. It's probably not healthy but that's all I know, and it's probably never going to change. Like someone else said if you bottle up your feelings you will explode, it's happened to me before, I go into deep depressions some times because of it, so I wouldn't recomend what I do, it's pretty much hopeless for me, so don't start and get stuck like me.

Awww, I am sorry about your father. Actually, all of you, I am truely sorry about all of your losses. D:

Time to go talk to my stuffed animal. LOL​

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Um, let's see.....


Being away from home too long.

Death.

And the big one, change. I HATE change and when its a BIG change, I tend to get emotional over it.....=[

 

[CheerExtreme]

Honestly... i can't cry.
i am like crying defficiant. it is quite annoying.
in sad movies i am the one not crying.

 

[CrazyChik]

I cried when sparky fell because i thought he was hurt and i couldn't stand the fact that i'd hurt him.

I cried when my dog died and then when my pony got put down(not sparky)

I cry in sad films, well i don't cry but i have tears streaming down my face. That count?

I cry for stupid reasons i swear.

I didn't cry when my grandad died and i didn't cry when my great-nan who i was very close to died.
See there is something messed up with my crying.

 

[minniesBFF]

I cried when my grandma died a few years ago, but thinking about her now I don't cry. I'm just sad about all the things she's missing. She won't be here to see me graduate or see me get married. She wasn't here when I broke my leg or for my first day of high school. And that makes me sad.

I really don't cry at sad movies. But Extreme Makeover home edition makes me bawl like a baby.

I cry over really stupid things. Like this one day I remember my mom wouldn't let me go over to a friends house and I cried like the whole day. And this was only like a year ago, I wasn't a little kid. Which makes it really lame. xD